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How to get a girl to call you using c/f or other..

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So heres the story guys I have been using this board and its content for some time. I have improved my overall game because of this board and its members so I just wanted to say thank you.

I have been seeing this girl for a couple weeks now and have already gotten with her if that helps anyone answer this question. I only call her once a week, im trying to stick to the 3 to 1 ratio of phone calls. She works 6 days a week so I know she is busy but she doesnt call when she says she is going to but I dont relate that to low interest but rather her being busy. Anyways my question is are there any lines to get her to call me more often? Something c/f or anything else

An example I got off a friend would be something like
"You know Its ok if you call me sometime. In fact im giving you permission to call me. Im a busy guy but I dont mind."

Something along those lines
Thanks for all the help guys
 

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Thats a good question.

Just dont make it sound like you need her to call you more than she needs you to call her. Make sure you're the one with the higher value. Some how you have to get the message to her that she's a flake.

Maybe freeze her out a little? I'm not too sure.

I'd like to hear some other people's input too
 

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Embrace said:
Thats a good question.

Just dont make it sound like you need her to call you more than she needs you to call her. Make sure you're the one with the higher value. Some how you have to get the message to her that she's a flake.

Maybe freeze her out a little? I'm not too sure.

I'd like to hear some other people's input too

Thats exactly it. Right now my value is definitly higher than hers. Iv been doing alot of negging and getting the "why do you make fun of me so much", with the playfull punch in the arm. She is also aware that im seeing other girls as well as her. But im not sure how to tell her that its ok that she can call me in a ****y way. I think she thinks that I am too busy for her because she will always make comments about how much I have going on in my life.

and yes, in reply to angeluspua, yes that is also an option on the table

anyone else?
thanks guys
 

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Embrace said:
Yeah man why dont you just stop calling her completley. Go after the other chicks and she'll chase you if she wants you

Thats what I would do but I also work with the girl, so I will eventually see her. Thats why I was looking for some way to convey that she could call me but still retaining higher value and to not seem like I care.

Thanks
 
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