girls always seem to hang around in groups and it's annoying,so I was wondering does anyone have any good techniques on how to pull them out of the pack?,because I don't really wanna get all flirty with a girl with like 4 of her close friends stood right by and I don't wanna freak her out and make her all defensive on me either if you know what I'm saying.tnx...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
how to get a girl from a group?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Treat it like a set in a bar, only split the approach over time.
By this I mean enter the group do all the usual stuff like a canned opener, time restraint, negging the target ect and then do some DHV stuff to the whole group. Then say you gotta get back to yer friends and leave.
Now the next time you see her you should have already built up some attraction and her friends will have seen what a cool guy you are thus giving you social proof making isolation that much easier. Her friends will probably end up helping you if you just go up to her with a reason to remove her from the group just by saying something like "Come with me a sec, I need your help with something". If your up for spontanious adventure you could just run up, grab her hand and pull her along with you, though remember you need something to show her or take her to or she may start feeling uncomfortable.
Hope this helps, feel free to correct me anywhere if you disagree with what I've said.
By this I mean enter the group do all the usual stuff like a canned opener, time restraint, negging the target ect and then do some DHV stuff to the whole group. Then say you gotta get back to yer friends and leave.
Now the next time you see her you should have already built up some attraction and her friends will have seen what a cool guy you are thus giving you social proof making isolation that much easier. Her friends will probably end up helping you if you just go up to her with a reason to remove her from the group just by saying something like "Come with me a sec, I need your help with something". If your up for spontanious adventure you could just run up, grab her hand and pull her along with you, though remember you need something to show her or take her to or she may start feeling uncomfortable.
Hope this helps, feel free to correct me anywhere if you disagree with what I've said.
Ok, this opener is gold...
Go up to the girl you like and say these exact same words:
"Hi, I just wanted to ask you for your name"
It doesn´t matter what she says, but she´ll ask you why you wanna know her name. Then you say:
"Oh, me and my friends just wanna know what the name of the girl is that we´ve been talking about all the time" (That´ll confuse her)
After that you immediately turn around and walk away. She will follow you cuz she´ll be curious. That´s a great way to isolate her. When she asks you what you and your friends were saying about her you say:
"Oh, nothing really important, but that was the only way to get you away from your friends. *****y smile*
...and then you game her.
This technique works 90% of the time!
Go up to the girl you like and say these exact same words:
"Hi, I just wanted to ask you for your name"
It doesn´t matter what she says, but she´ll ask you why you wanna know her name. Then you say:
"Oh, me and my friends just wanna know what the name of the girl is that we´ve been talking about all the time" (That´ll confuse her)
After that you immediately turn around and walk away. She will follow you cuz she´ll be curious. That´s a great way to isolate her. When she asks you what you and your friends were saying about her you say:
"Oh, nothing really important, but that was the only way to get you away from your friends. *****y smile*
...and then you game her.
This technique works 90% of the time!
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
I may test that tomorrowChrizZ said:
.Sounds good, only problem with it is if you got a small HS and everybody already knows each other.
ok thanks for the replies but unfortunately the same as plec everyone already knows everyone's name (at least everyone worth knowing) but I've made progress anyway,because I just told her I "needed to speak to her for a minute" while her friends were talking about something else,
which worked and recently she came upto me and my friends and started talking to me lol,so she's loosened up to me which is great
which worked and recently she came upto me and my friends and started talking to me lol,so she's loosened up to me which is great
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I'm going to have to recommend going in to this Mystery Style. Go in flirting with the whole group, get them all to love you, then when everything is going good just ask the them, "Hey, can i borrow your friend for a second?"
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
If you find it's not going anywhere it's probably time to start escilating kino. How much kino are you using at the moment?kgarvey said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.