girls always seem to hang around in groups and it's annoying,so I was wondering does anyone have any good techniques on how to pull them out of the pack?,because I don't really wanna get all flirty with a girl with like 4 of her close friends stood right by and I don't wanna freak her out and make her all defensive on me either if you know what I'm saying.tnx...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
how to get a girl from a group?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Treat it like a set in a bar, only split the approach over time.
By this I mean enter the group do all the usual stuff like a canned opener, time restraint, negging the target ect and then do some DHV stuff to the whole group. Then say you gotta get back to yer friends and leave.
Now the next time you see her you should have already built up some attraction and her friends will have seen what a cool guy you are thus giving you social proof making isolation that much easier. Her friends will probably end up helping you if you just go up to her with a reason to remove her from the group just by saying something like "Come with me a sec, I need your help with something". If your up for spontanious adventure you could just run up, grab her hand and pull her along with you, though remember you need something to show her or take her to or she may start feeling uncomfortable.
Hope this helps, feel free to correct me anywhere if you disagree with what I've said.
By this I mean enter the group do all the usual stuff like a canned opener, time restraint, negging the target ect and then do some DHV stuff to the whole group. Then say you gotta get back to yer friends and leave.
Now the next time you see her you should have already built up some attraction and her friends will have seen what a cool guy you are thus giving you social proof making isolation that much easier. Her friends will probably end up helping you if you just go up to her with a reason to remove her from the group just by saying something like "Come with me a sec, I need your help with something". If your up for spontanious adventure you could just run up, grab her hand and pull her along with you, though remember you need something to show her or take her to or she may start feeling uncomfortable.
Hope this helps, feel free to correct me anywhere if you disagree with what I've said.
Ok, this opener is gold...
Go up to the girl you like and say these exact same words:
"Hi, I just wanted to ask you for your name"
It doesn´t matter what she says, but she´ll ask you why you wanna know her name. Then you say:
"Oh, me and my friends just wanna know what the name of the girl is that we´ve been talking about all the time" (That´ll confuse her)
After that you immediately turn around and walk away. She will follow you cuz she´ll be curious. That´s a great way to isolate her. When she asks you what you and your friends were saying about her you say:
"Oh, nothing really important, but that was the only way to get you away from your friends. *****y smile*
...and then you game her.
This technique works 90% of the time!
Go up to the girl you like and say these exact same words:
"Hi, I just wanted to ask you for your name"
It doesn´t matter what she says, but she´ll ask you why you wanna know her name. Then you say:
"Oh, me and my friends just wanna know what the name of the girl is that we´ve been talking about all the time" (That´ll confuse her)
After that you immediately turn around and walk away. She will follow you cuz she´ll be curious. That´s a great way to isolate her. When she asks you what you and your friends were saying about her you say:
"Oh, nothing really important, but that was the only way to get you away from your friends. *****y smile*
...and then you game her.
This technique works 90% of the time!
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
I may test that tomorrowChrizZ said:
.Sounds good, only problem with it is if you got a small HS and everybody already knows each other.
ok thanks for the replies but unfortunately the same as plec everyone already knows everyone's name (at least everyone worth knowing) but I've made progress anyway,because I just told her I "needed to speak to her for a minute" while her friends were talking about something else,
which worked and recently she came upto me and my friends and started talking to me lol,so she's loosened up to me which is great
which worked and recently she came upto me and my friends and started talking to me lol,so she's loosened up to me which is great
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I'm going to have to recommend going in to this Mystery Style. Go in flirting with the whole group, get them all to love you, then when everything is going good just ask the them, "Hey, can i borrow your friend for a second?"
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
If you find it's not going anywhere it's probably time to start escilating kino. How much kino are you using at the moment?kgarvey said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.