"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to get a fvck buddy in highschool?

eaglez1177

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Hey everyone. I know this belongs in the HS forum, but I posted it here instead because I figured I would get alot more replies here than in the HS forum. I apologize to the mods for this, but plz try to understand where im coming from (the advice in this forum is much better than the HS one).

Anyways, I was just curious if there is any way for someone in HS to get a good, consistent fvck buddy. Is this even possible? Would it be much harder to accomplish? Would a girl in HS be much less willing to be a fvck buddy with a guy as opposed to a girl in the real world outside HS?

Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Five To One

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Yeah it certainly is possible. Just try to make your intentions clear so they arnt confused. Easier said than done. Try to keep it as much physical intamacy and not much emotional intamacy.

You just need to be a good friend to the girl but also know how to make a move when the time is right. The first time may surprise her but it gets easier after that.

Im in high school and theres several girls who im just friends with but we hook up when we get privacy.

*I think it just takes the right image in high school. If girls know you as the guy who never has a girlfriend then they wont expect it to go anywhere but physical. Not every girl will like this but there are defenently plenty that will be game.


Theres been plenty of information written about f-buddies. Not much will be different because your in high school. use the search and you will find some good articles, better than what I just wrote
good luck
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Anyways, I was just curious if there is any way for someone in HS to get a good, consistent fvck buddy. Is this even possible? Would it be much harder to accomplish? Would a girl in HS be much less willing to be a fvck buddy with a guy as opposed to a girl in the real world outside HS?
Yes its possible.

As long as you keep your mouth shut and not brag about it to your friends or anybody else and let her know that this secret will be just between the two of you. To the outside observer you should look like two friends who just like to hang out. No kissing or holding hands or anything that resemble more then friendship. Its therefore harder to accomplish in a highschool setting because emotions tend to run high and inexperience tends to expose the fvckbuddy relationship in the long run.

A girl in highschool needs to be assured that the word doesn't get around that she is sleeping around with some guy and isn't even his official "girlfriend" otherwise she can be ostracised for being a slut. It is the reason why most girls in highschool need the cover of a "boyfriend" role in their live's in order to fvck.
 

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Ohhh okk I see. Thanks alot guys. Im gonna try to find a decent looking girl to be a fvck buddy with so hopefully all will go well.
 

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Yes, I've done it a couple times. Most of the times we started out as friends. But, I used kino, hugs, advancing more sexually. Then, out of no where I'd get texts saying there is something about me and one thang leads to the next and you become friends with benefits.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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