"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to get a fcck buddy?

mackdaddy27

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Basically I work a lot of hours for , and I m 28

and I dont really want to or have the time to spend hours talking on the phone and waisting time going shoppoing with someone for sex, I just want the sex ...

so what do you think is the best way to secure a regular f**K buddy?


a) go for a milf ?

b) or a really young girl 18-20.

c) find someone who is as busy as you ?

d) just keep getting a new girl every week at the club?

e) go for the LTR , but dont give her too much attention
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GuanYu

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get yourself a girlfriend. Give her the best sex possible. Break up after a few to several months.

Wait a week or two, contact her just to say hi.

If she initiates contact within a week after you contact her - tell her you'd like to meet up with her for face-to-face convo.

Be friendly, fun and most importantly somehow, bring up old banging sex you had with her.

Isolate her (maybe even get a little loose with some alcohol/weed/etc) and proceed to make out with her (if you succeed in isolating she knows whats up but it's up to you to start up)

Bang the shyt out of her. Call her again the next day to say hi, then wait another week or two.

If she either contacts you or vice-a-versa within a week or two and you guys agree to meet again you have a fvck buddy.

If you fvck her 2+ times within a month, you're fvck buddies. congrats
 

Mr. Bond

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I approach it pretty much the same as you would if you wanted to be her boyfriend. It's not rocket science. She's pretty much bound to ask where we stand after we have sex a few times. I tell her I'm not looking for anything too serious. Either she accepts this, and she becomes an F-buddy, or she doesn't and I'll find someone else.

Also, don't come right out and say f-buddy if you can avoid it. It generally makes them feel slutty.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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Mr. Bond said it before I could, but under no conditions do you ever say "Fvck Buddy" when you're trying to make her one. Really, you shouldn't ever say it around her at all, for as long as you care to fvck her, anyway. They will say to their friends but if she hears you say it, game over. You just tripped the ol' ASD.

At the very least she'll give you a bunch of gf-type drama, be mad at you for awhile, you don't give a sh!t and you end up fvcking her anyway.
 

sodbuster

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If she realizes you aren't compatible,but the sex has her hooked;tell her you can both look for other people[you have to be serious,maybe try to set her up]. F-buddy,like they said never mention that or friends with benefits-you both know what it is,just don't talk about it.
 

thewarrior

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For the guys in serious relationships, what makes you think your HB7+ DOESN'T have a f-buddy? I think the women of 2009 all have the ex or dude that puts a pounding on them. Basically, what I'm saying is a very large percentage of women have f-buddies while seeing another guy.
 

Phoenix

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a) go for a milf ?
I had one and she fell for me. Not cool.
b) or a really young girl 18-20.
She will definitely fall for you.
c) find someone who is as busy as you ?
Good luck, that would be good though.
d) just keep getting a new girl every week at the club?
Good luck.
e) go for the LTR , but dont give her too much attention
That's just being plain nasty.
 

Allurre

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I've had FB's before.

You still play the SAME cards as dating women.

The only difference is there's no strings attached.

You don't ask or request someone to be a FB,
eventually you guys will come to a consensus
where you are just friends with benefits.

Hope that helps.

Allurre
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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