"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to get a FB

Remulak

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This girl I'm talking to I'm about to just give up on her but i wanted to try and get her as a FB. I've already had sex with her but her reaon for not wanting to continue is "we'll end up liking each other more and it will cause drama." Keep in mind this girl tells me how she likes me. Her actions and words just don't match up. How do i convince her that this is a good idea?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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benrox

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"we'll end up liking each other more and it will cause drama."

I'd see that as a **** test. I mean come on, what kind of bull**** is that?

My 2 cents

You either gave her really bad sex, or shes testing to see if you're strong enough to handle that sort of thing with her, without turning into some wussy who's gonna drool all over her feet. I woulda jus been like - "Ya... you're absolutely right. You'd probably fall in love with me, and never leave my house. How would I invite my other girlfriends over?"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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