"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to game women in lounge coffee bars?

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AreYouSingleFemale

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The problem is that compared to regular coffee shops with table & chairs, lounge bars have sofas that offer more isolation. There were 2 hot women sitting there and talking in somewhat low voice, so I felt like they were not in a mood to be gamed, and did not make any move.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AreYouSingleFemale

Please open your mouth and fail. That's the only way you will learn about how people react to certain things. Social conditioning, social dynamics are something you need to experience for yourself.

I'd recommend saying something "hey guys, i just feel like meeting new people today".

^^No matter where the fvck they are, standing or sitting or running or jumping off an airplane, this should work in any situation.
 
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Just do it, to be honest its just experience. The more u do it the more better u will get at it in coffee shops.
 
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