"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to game hot nerdy chicks?

PapiChulo

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I am talking about gaming this particular type of girls that concentrate on academics a lot. I ve met a few of them and some of the characteristics are:

Dont dress to attract attention (sometimes downright poorly)
Speak proper English language (sound like educated snobs)
Feminist wanna-bes
Have high opinion of themselves (brains)
intelligent
Love when you kiss their ass
Eat right and have sexy bodies (me like...)
Serious
Dont like sexy humour
can be wing-nuts or hippies
like to help the underprivileged


They seem to dislike me because I am overtly sexual, too much fun and dont kiss their ass. They think they have me figured out! ha ha could not be more wrong

How do I go about gaming them in the academic environment?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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These girls are into the Patrick Bateman kind of guys.
 

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I swear I made a thread just like this but upon doing a search, I couldn't find anything.

I've been going through the same problem. Except the chicks I'm into right now are really into video games, anime, and J-rock.

I'd guess they're more dorky than nerdy. The most common thing is "Dont dress to attract attention (sometimes downright poorly)." They also don't seem to party and go to bars etc.
 

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They're not as different as you think they are unless they're really young (<20 yrs) and inexperienced.
 

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You know the answer already

PapiChulo said:
I am talking about gaming this particular type of girls that concentrate on academics a lot. I ve met a few of them and some of the characteristics are:

Dont dress to attract attention (sometimes downright poorly)
Speak proper English language (sound like educated snobs)
Feminist wanna-bes
Have high opinion of themselves (brains)
intelligent
Love when you kiss their ass
Eat right and have sexy bodies (me like...)
Serious
Dont like sexy humour
can be wing-nuts or hippies
like to help the underprivileged


They seem to dislike me because I am overtly sexual, too much fun and dont kiss their ass. They think they have me figured out! ha ha could not be more wrong

How do I go about gaming them in the academic environment?
I'll assume you're asking about a specific girl, because honestly, there's no real formula for approaches. More like guidelines with a heavy dose of thinking on your feet.

I would say game them the same as anyone else. Be the best version of you. If it works, it works. If it doesn't, your pride wants to put your ass where it shouldn't be.

But to be honest, the archetype you describe seems incredibly boring. Imagine you were Brad Pitt, who can get anyone just because he's Brad Pitt (which means he had to be pretty awesome to become Brad Pitt). Why would Brad Pitt waste his time on a chick who's not game because of _____?

Unless you've somehow already seen this girl naked somehow, and have heard that she's mindblowingly fantastic in the sack, I see no reason to believe she'd be better in bed than a girl who is equally good looking with none of the hangups.

On that note, guys, date a girl who will wrestle you. And I'm not talking play-wrestle, I'm talking choke-the-sh*t-outta-you-and-try-to-win-wrestle.

I won't say anything else about it. Just try it. Of course, this will require a slightly more athletic, beer-drinking type. My favorite, really.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Great post. When I run into one like that I want them compulsively-maybe they are challenge to me or whatnot. There still seems to be a great deal of naive in them. And yes, they dont party and go out much either.

I started to neg-hit one in my class right of the bat to show her that I am not intimidated by her in any way. I am aware that with these ones I could over neg real quick-making me look like a d!ck. Then she will ignore me making it hopeless for me.

So it resulted in this thing today when she was sitting next to me, like inches away, starting this little grooming ritual in almost cat-like manner: picking lint of her clothes, then sitting up nicely with her legs open, playing with hair, arching and stretching, showcasing her tits to be appreciated with this "oh look at my tits, aren't they nice". Needless to say, I was extremely turned on by that.

What kinda behavior is that? that's the textbook flirting - too good to believe indeed. I like to flex a muscle and stretch here and there myself, but only to showcase the body a little-not to actually stretch out.


P.S. I am gonna wrestle this b!tch now. In a tub of jello!
 
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loveshogun said:
On that note, guys, date a girl who will wrestle you. And I'm not talking play-wrestle, I'm talking choke-the-sh*t-outta-you-and-try-to-win-wrestle.

I won't say anything else about it. Just try it. Of course, this will require a slightly more athletic, beer-drinking type. My favorite, really.
Yes.
 

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im 16, and there is this girl who is 17 who is smart, hot, and very mature...
so yah, im wondering the same thing (if my approach should be different than normal)
 

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Invite her to play Halo with you, then tell her if she loses, you'll take a semi-automatic rifle and blow off her head!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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J. Darko said:
These girls are into the Patrick Bateman kind of guys.
Okay, then invite her over for ice cream, and tell her if she spills any on your carpet, you will take a knife and slit her throat. :woo:
 

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....and the have sex with her dead body while its still warm, Bateman style.

Thanks to Mr. Darko and his wonderful reply.
 

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Okay, then invite her over for ice cream, and tell her if she spills any on your carpet, you will take a knife and slit her throat. :woo:
No I was talking about chasing her with a chainsaw while you are naked.



Seriously though, I'm talking about the yuppie image.
 

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At least 75% of my lays and GFs have been this type. They go ape**** over me.

Probably because I am also nerdy, left wingy volunteer, a horrible dresser, speak correctly, DON'T kiss their ass, and have hours of sarcastic witty repartee at my disposal.

So...there you go. Become that.

Or fake it.
 

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So I am turning into a sarcastic yuppie which is speaking proper English and not kissing their ass, who also enjoys wrestling them in bed.

I like where it s going.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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