"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to game 2 friends?

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Aiken_Drum

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Hey guys, yesterday I went out with these 2 girls to a club. It was an AMAZING night, I was in a great state, had tones of DHVs. It even happened that I was standing at the bar with them, and this random guy looks at me, I say hi and he nods at me...
We tried to get into the VIP, they were allowed but I got stopped, so I told them "wait here". Went to talk to a performer, told him I LOVED the show (very true, it's amazing, we went to Club 69 in Buenos Aires, AMAZING place on saturdays). So then I asked him where I could get a VIP access and he said "I'll get one for you".
When the girls asked how I got it, it felt SOOO good, best DHV ever, haha.

I'm really into one of them, the thing is that I felt bad for gaming her, because I don't want her friend to be offended... yeah, I know, my thinking sucks!!!

Can someone help rewire this???
How do you handle this situation?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey Silvestre, thanks for the tips.
That's actually what I did, but the one I had the lowest interest in was the most interested. I didn't want to close her because I would lose the one I was the most interested in.

Anyone else can share their experience?
 
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Tell them you have two weiners.
 
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