"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to gain Sexual Power over Women?

pressure0354

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I am really not sure how to do such things.

I wanted sex last night with my girlfriend, she said she couldn't cause some medication she was taking specifically said no sex for 48 hours.

What bothers me is she mentioned jokingly "I have all the power."

It really bugs me that I have a higher sex drive and am pretty much always in the mood. I've never turned down sex where as she has a few times because she was tired, etc...

How do I regain sexual power over her. Make her want it more than me?

I feel like if I hold out on her I would be waiting for months...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You need to grab it and wiggle it in front of her face. "You want some of this lady!" From a porno site I saw yesterday - You can take a pizza box with a pizza in it. Cut a hole in it and stick your wang through it. Open the lid and show it to her and ask "Would you like a big sausage pizza?" :woo:

My advice would be to make her feel sexy. Leave little notes about her sexually in the room. Let her find them. Actually I think I read this in the bible. Probably some info in there.
 

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I have a few questions for you.

How long have the two of you been together?
Is her not wanting to have sex with you something that has just started?
Is there anything that would lead you to believe that she is going elsewhere to get sex?



As far as you wanting to know “How do I regain sexual power over her” . Hell I think we would all love to know the answer to that question. Fact is the female is ALWAYS going to have most if not all of the “sexual power”. The only thing we men can do is learn how to seduce the lady and draw her into wanting to have sex.

I do not know you or know your sex life, but are you going at her with the same approach every time you want sex? You have to keep changing things up. If you use the same old touch to get her thinking of sex she will know you are after sex before you even know it yourself. Ladies seem to have that sixth sense about guys and when they are wanting sex. All we can do is size up the situation make a plan and look for clues that tell us if she is ready.


Try to change your approach it may help!


Funk out!.....
 

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take her out, get her all worked up, but not to the point where it would give her a chance to either accept or decline having sex, and say your tired and are going home. That should about do it, she is going to want to jump your bones right there for this, but at this time remind her you are really tired and then go home. After that you should be gaining some of the power back, as i am sure this is something that you haven't done to her, its for sure going to catch her off her gaurd. sweet bro, you should be able to bang her good after that. I am hoping you understand why this works, its ****ed up but this is the main motivator for women. You can offer her the world, and all she can offer back is submitting to you with sex. When it appears to her that the only thing she has to offer is losing value, your in like larry flyn dawg. they always want what they can't have, don't forget that.
 

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Here's a tidbit I learned from an interpersonal comm class semester before last. It stuck out in my mind as being especially true:

Whoever cares the most about a relationship has the least power in that relationship.

Hopefully that's all the clarification you need...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Care enough to get the girls but not enough to keep them.

That way, if she wants to be with you, it puts the ball in her court to do what's necessary to keep you interested in her, to where she's doing the work and you're reaping the rewards ;)

Right?
 

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thanks boi's

no shes loyal like a dog. it just bugs me that i am always the aggressive one.

anyway thanks for the input. i guess im just gonna have to sex her all up then say im tired. haha.

the only thing is, it sucks cause my d*ick is bad at lying. ya know what i mean?
 
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