I ****ed up a lot by not making moves. Thus killing the attraction, she really wanted me though.
background story (skippable)
Girl hit me up randomly at night so I knew she meant business. But things didn't go so smoothly..
We talked for a good 50 minutes and she was doing most of the talking. We started making out, I was kinda sloppy I think.. We ended in the backseat because she asked me. We made out and I was trying to escalate sexually by rubbing up her thighs and occasionally rub up her panties. Her panties felt wet and moist. This whole time I was wishing her clothes would disappear I didn't know how to take it off. Her mom calls and tell her to come inside. I told her it's getting late and I have to go. We got out the car and she let out a deep sigh. We hugged and kissed and as we let go, we let let our arms fall slowly and she told me to text her.
Next time I hit her up except. 50 minutes of talking, but this time no make out and no sex. Gave her a kiss/15 sec makeout at the end of the night.
Next time was a makeout.
What I'm doing is going 1 step forward and 2 steps back. And I can see her interest dropping ****ing quick. The first time I almost had sex was with her 7 days ago during that incident.
How do I make her regain the attraction? I can now see that I've been being a ***** by hesitating. She has told me she wants a dominant man but I've been passive the whole time. She was leading the seduction on the first night. What do I do from here? It doesn't help that her birthday is today and she works with me but I mostly dont see her
background story (skippable)
Girl hit me up randomly at night so I knew she meant business. But things didn't go so smoothly..
We talked for a good 50 minutes and she was doing most of the talking. We started making out, I was kinda sloppy I think.. We ended in the backseat because she asked me. We made out and I was trying to escalate sexually by rubbing up her thighs and occasionally rub up her panties. Her panties felt wet and moist. This whole time I was wishing her clothes would disappear I didn't know how to take it off. Her mom calls and tell her to come inside. I told her it's getting late and I have to go. We got out the car and she let out a deep sigh. We hugged and kissed and as we let go, we let let our arms fall slowly and she told me to text her.
Next time I hit her up except. 50 minutes of talking, but this time no make out and no sex. Gave her a kiss/15 sec makeout at the end of the night.
Next time was a makeout.
What I'm doing is going 1 step forward and 2 steps back. And I can see her interest dropping ****ing quick. The first time I almost had sex was with her 7 days ago during that incident.
How do I make her regain the attraction? I can now see that I've been being a ***** by hesitating. She has told me she wants a dominant man but I've been passive the whole time. She was leading the seduction on the first night. What do I do from here? It doesn't help that her birthday is today and she works with me but I mostly dont see her