"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to fu*k without spending money

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Long story short, im looking for hook ups and dont feel like spending anymore, since im broke and rather save. Everyones gotta bust a nut everyonce and a while and im looking to do it the cheapest way possible. How do I go about doing this?

Should I tell them straight up?

Seduce them then go for the kiss which will lead to other things...?

You get my drift ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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easy go to your nearest liquor store and buy wine bottles. invite them over to watch a movie/listen to music/chill/ whateva and escalate to your bedroom.
 

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Tiguere said:
easy go to your nearest liquor store and buy wine bottles. invite them over to watch a movie/listen to music/chill/ whateva and escalate to your bedroom.

Do chicks actually go to stranger's apartment to drink? If so how to actually go from a talking to random girl on the street to getting her to your place?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Crissco said:
Long story short, im looking for hook ups and dont feel like spending anymore, since im broke and rather save. Everyones gotta bust a nut everyonce and a while and im looking to do it the cheapest way possible. How do I go about doing this?

Should I tell them straight up?

Seduce them then go for the kiss which will lead to other things...?

You get my drift ;)
Finding sex takes lots of one of two things: either time, or money. If you're willing to spend money, it takes little time. If you're not, you're going to have to spend a lot of time trying to find chicks who are looking for what you're looking for.
 

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Zarky said:
Finding sex takes lots of one of two things: either time, or money. If you're willing to spend money, it takes little time. If you're not, you're going to have to spend a lot of time trying to find chicks who are looking for what you're looking for.
Thats exactly what I thought, thanks Zarky. Always appreciate your input
 

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Thats exactly what I thought, thanks Zarky. Always appreciate your input
Do the Tom lykis rule: don't spend more than 40$ on a date...:rockon:
 

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ELITE said:
Do the Tom lykis rule: don't spend more than 40$ on a date...:rockon:
Last time i spent 40 all i got was a ****ing kiss out it. So fu*k that.
 

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$40 to most of you is an entire month's allowance. Do you have to mow the lawn for that? Or do you get extra money for taking care of the grass?

After I got jerked around for being honest about my habits I have changed. Now I will make you look foolish. $40? To be young and poor. Don't miss those days one bit.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey Man :)

The cheapest way to do it are coffee shops.

You buy her a cocoa or an exotic coffee... girls won't turn down something sweet. You just hype the place up beforehand... "They make the BEST cocoa there... really!!" And then when you're sitting down with her, you stroke her fingers, and then stroke her thighs underneath the table. KILLER. And CHEAP.

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Jesse Charger
 

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allbeef said:
$40 to most of you is an entire month's allowance. Do you have to mow the lawn for that? Or do you get extra money for taking care of the grass?

After I got jerked around for being honest about my habits I have changed. Now I will make you look foolish. $40? To be young and poor. Don't miss those days one bit.
WTF are you talking about? That has no relevance to my thread title.
 

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allbeef said:
$40 to most of you is an entire month's allowance. Do you have to mow the lawn for that? Or do you get extra money for taking care of the grass?

After I got jerked around for being honest about my habits I have changed. Now I will make you look foolish. $40? To be young and poor. Don't miss those days one bit.

I make 40K a minute selling stocks.
 

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by not having money your saying you have very little to spend right?

This was basically me last year. I had no money and no home. I was getting girls but i had no place to bring them to. Since i one girl and i were in the same class, we walked around campus together went to a lawschool party where i didn't spend any money but i had nowhere to close.

The other girl was a girl i met through a mutual friend who i asked out to dinner which was costly. Eventually a group of us were drinking at her place where i ended being the only one who stayed. She asked me to sleep on her bed (i was wasted). I spent money when we split the cost of drinks.

You need atleast SOME money. Enough to meet minimum gentleman requirements (atleast pay your half and if your asking, my etiquette is if i asked i will pay). Making the b1tch pay for everything is definitely going to be a turnoff but you don't have to pay for everything. If you don't have enough money to even consider driving to see the girl maybe you should be working on other things besides trying to get girls.

I was not thinking about getting laid when those opportunities came, i was worried about having a place to sleep, food to eat, and taking care of my baggage. Occasionally when my friends called me out to have fun i went.
I had more girls than i could handle when i couldn't even handle myself and now its the exact opposite haha.
 

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allbeef said:
$40 to most of you is an entire month's allowance. Do you have to mow the lawn for that? Or do you get extra money for taking care of the grass?

After I got jerked around for being honest about my habits I have changed. Now I will make you look foolish. $40? To be young and poor. Don't miss those days one bit.
Thats a stupid response. I spend more money on a date also. Only for quality women. If it just some girl who he wants to **** and thinks of a low quality. And doesn't want to spend cash then thats why I suggest to not spend more than 40$ date rule.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you have good enough game you don't need money. You can convince a new girl to buy you drinks and pay for everything.
 

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Bluntmaster said:
If you have good enough game you don't need money. You can convince a new girl to buy you drinks and pay for everything.
Thats what usually happens. The girls buy the drinks for me, even when I dont game them. I do it through social proof. Making the room laugh, having a good time, they sense that and offer me drinks.
 

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allbeef said:
Cordon makes $60k easy. So take that.

Who is Cordon? I don't take that guy seriously. He thinks he is better than everyone on this site, and he is really better than nobody.
 

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Crissco said:
Thats what usually happens. The girls buy the drinks for me, even when I dont game them. I do it through social proof. Making the room laugh, having a good time, they sense that and offer me drinks.

I have seen guys pimping on foot dressed in rags.

I have seen it, it is possible.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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