How to flirt without losing your gentlemanly side

[Pumax]

Hi!
You all know here that I'm a bit autistic, and you can imagine how much of a handicap this is when it comes to social contact, especially with women and dating.

So I'm trying my hardest to figure out how to be more "sexual," or to remove the air of a sweet, good guy, and instead come across as someone who stirs things up with women.

So, I knew there was this old friend (still single) who really liked me in the past, so we met through other friends, and while I was having a moment with her, she asked me to get something from her bag, so I took it, and when I handed it to her, our eyes locked for longer than usual, and I slowed down the movement of handing it over.
I even gave a slight smile.

She immediately turned around, but I didn't see her smile.
That said.

From that day on, her behavior towards me changed. (she's actually flirting heavy with me now).

So, what I just did, I found, changed how women now see me.
She might simply ask herself, "What was that look he gave me?" and that gets her mental work done.

So, having said that, I'm making progress. I definitely think I found a way to flirt which fit my persona.
As I mentioned, I'm really bad at this and I have a lot to improve on.

I don't want this to be inconsistent with my personality. Ultimately, I'm a good man, and nice in my ways, and I want to maintain that and incorporate some elegant flirting into all of that.

What other flirting methods can you think of that fit with my personality, that I can use on women, to communicate to them that I'm also a sexual person, even if I have no intention of having a relationship with them? I think it's essential to always do this; it makes women feel appreciated.

Also because, women of all ages, married or not, flirt with me a lot.

I'd like to learn to do it in an elegant, polite, gallant, and flattering way. (please consider link videos too).
I'd really like to practice this quality; I think it would make her feel really good in your presence.

The flirtation of a PUA, a show-off, a moron might get her laid, but the flirtation of a gentleman, I think, drives her crazy.

 

[Novice1]

just read the art of seduction, surely you'll find your archetype from the book

 

[Cheeky_James]

What you’re doing is good buddy.
“It’s all in the eyes “ is a classic old maxim of seduction,
Sticky eyes , long lingering glances etc etc

You can stick to mainly body language stuff for the bulk of flirting.

next step is break the touch barrier.
Think of excuses to touch her while you are holding eye contact.

“you’re so funny” -> +touch her hand
“Aw no you poor thing! That’s terrible news” -> + touch her upper arm in empathy.

your body posture is another switch up.
Stand a bit closer when talking.

it’s all eye contact, touching and closing space gradually really , that builds up anticipation and sexual tension for the make out,

Hope that helps.

Edit : ps before you know it you’ll be bending down behind her and saying “ wow! Are those x brand jeans ? Cool! Those back pockets are so big !” -> + stroking her ass.

but that wouldnt be very gentlemanly