"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How To Flirt With Women

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Flirting with women is a touchy subject because if you flirt too much with the girl she might think of you as clingy. Here are a few tips on how to flirt with women to make them feel attracted to you:

1. Eye Contact- eye contact is the best way to flirt with a girl right off the bat. Make sure to give her one look in the eye and not to smile right away. This will make her wonder if your interested or not.

2. Hold her hand- when you introduce yourself touch her hand and give it a small shake. Make sure to look into her eyes while you do this. For the bold guys, give her a kiss on the cheek and be like that’s how I introduce myself. In Miami and in latin countries, most people greet each other with a kiss on the cheek. You can use this to your advantage to create sexual energy.

3. Tease her- I absolutely love this one… I will touch a girl when she’s not looking and look the other way, poke her, and mess with her all night. This is a good way to flirt with women because it creates anticipation.

4. Humor- making women laugh is a great way to flirt with them. I am always making jokes and entertaining women. Some people say the key to a woman’s heart is humor and I think it’s true. Here is an example- if she touches me I usually say, “look I’m not like the other guys you know so I don’t know why you are flirting with me.” This will make them laugh and wonder if your serious. It’s a great way to create attraction.

5. Kiss Test- I will usually play with girls and tell them I don’t kiss on the first date. By doing this, I set the frame and they want to kiss me on the first night. There is a technique that I use to make a girl want to kiss me. I whisper in her ear and blow in it. I talk in her ear lightly and if I’m on the dance floor I shake my hips with hers. By blowing in her ear, I have created sexual energy. Most of the time, the girl will kiss me and if she doesn’t I’ll blow a light kiss on her lip. She will make out if she’s interested, trust me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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