lokariototal
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For me flirting and expressing my desires takes a bit of guts. WHY!? How can I make it easy and effortless?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
how to flirt effortlessly?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
With practice and confidence.
Mr.Freestyler19
Don Juan
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hav fun and think its ok for u to flirt..also practice eye contact and your smile
Assume they want to fvck the shlt out of you, not get to know u or see that ur a super cool guy, but ride your c0ck like it's the last c0ck on the face of the planet. Then dangle some bait in front of them like your giving them an opportunity and MAYBE they'll get lucky, cause u my friend are a shining fvcking star!!!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
hydroheathen
Don Juan
When you realize that the fear of these approaches cannot kill you it will become ALOT easier. Take it from somebody who has only recently overcome such fears and trust me the benefits are vvvvery great yezzzzir 