lokariototal
Don Juan
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For me flirting and expressing my desires takes a bit of guts. WHY!? How can I make it easy and effortless?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
how to flirt effortlessly?
- Thread starter lokariototal
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
With practice and confidence.
Mr.Freestyler19
Don Juan
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hav fun and think its ok for u to flirt..also practice eye contact and your smile
Assume they want to fvck the shlt out of you, not get to know u or see that ur a super cool guy, but ride your c0ck like it's the last c0ck on the face of the planet. Then dangle some bait in front of them like your giving them an opportunity and MAYBE they'll get lucky, cause u my friend are a shining fvcking star!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
hydroheathen
Don Juan
When you realize that the fear of these approaches cannot kill you it will become ALOT easier. Take it from somebody who has only recently overcome such fears and trust me the benefits are vvvvery great yezzzzir 