"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to fix a screwup

hello2k1

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So I've been talking to this girl now for a few weeks and have started to get some pretty good ioi's, but I think I messed up a little bit a few days ago. We were having a text message conversation and I decided to test a new routine:

Me: You're a nerd
HB9: I know but you're more nerdy than me, you're in grad school
Me: I'm a fan of nerdy girls, you would look incredible in a sexy librarian outfit
HB9: Fantasizing about me already? Does my current uniform not satisfy you enough?
Me: It's all your fault, you really shouldn't look so good. It's ok though, I have really good self control.
HB9: -no response- ... and I haven't talked to her for a few days since

This was my first attempt at the gunwitch method and I think I totally butchered it. Any feedback on what I did wrong? And any ideas on how to fix it?

Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mikeyb

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Looked good up until the last line. You need to do that in person now. Texting is not the best way to get good at DJism.
 

hello2k1

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Yea you're definitely right, I tried almost exactly the same line this weekend on another girl (but in person), and got some great results. Lesson learned: don't do gunwitch method in a text.

Any ideas on how to fix it?
 

omega05

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i dont think you should be treating it as a problem. just go about your business and hit her up later
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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