"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to find the Perfect wingman?

Georgepithyou

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It seems like most wingman I meet online here in Sydney are Duds

I am by no means an approach machine, I still have inhibitions when it comes to cold approach but a lot of these guys always hesitate to approach group sets, isn't one of the points of a wingman to distract the other girls while you go for the one? But it doesn't end there a lot of these guys won't approach at all so it makes me wonder why they even bothered to go out in the first place.

I would see my self as upper beginner level, not quiet a newbie but not mid range yet in terms of my game level.

I can't seem to find any good wingman and most days I end up going solo, where can i find a good wingman?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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7onriverI f

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you shouldn't be approaching left right and centre anyways.

Not all group sets are approachable. Yes you can approach them but its going nowhere no matter what you do.

Do you know when a girl is interested just based on eye contact from across the room? You should notice that stuff first then approach if not they approach you.

If you can get wings just get them out of the house and in the club and around women. Where are you meeting wings online anyways?
 
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