"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to find out if woman is interested?

DJnoob

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I work with this chick by the way in this small area...

but uhhh..read below...is this a good way?

Sometimes I tease her, talk about things that interesests her alot, etc etc, and do some C & F . (i am known as that kind of a person to her)

Then sometimes when I work with her, I would be just quiet, but not totally quiet. Which is not the normal "happy me". (hoping to make her wonder)






1) By the way, when you guys talk to girls, do they happen to talk about themselves alot when you ask them stuff??? But I notice sometimes they would talk and talk about themselves ALOT to the point where they "forget" to ask you questions back?

or

2)If they dont ask questions back does that mean they are not interested in you or does that mean they forgot about asking you questions back simply because their imaginations are running wild in their head at the moment and completely can't get a grip of themselves?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Donald Kaufman

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Some women talk endlessly when they are nervous and it can mean she is into you and afraid to let the convo flag.

Some women talk endlessly when they are self absorbed.

Some women just talk.

Last year a woman talked at me for an hour before noticing I had not responded once and was watching the TV behind her. Haven't seen her for a while.:D

She still calls. So far I've forgotten to answer.
 

Euthyphro

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Ask her out. If she says "yes" shes interested. If its "no" then shes not. Its simple at this point.
 

az94

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I'm no expert but when I'm attracted to a woman I just let her know I'm interested and see where it goes.

I'd ask for her number or say I'm going out on so and so night and doing whatever and ask if she wants to go.

Act confident and disinterested in her response.

I worked for me...

AZ
 
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