"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

How to find chinks in girls armor?

Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,807
Reaction score
851
Location
Florida, USA
Many girls walk around with an attitude of superiority. Yet I know they are all weak little girls inside. How do I expose them for who they really are?

I have a feeling that many of the bartender/stripper types are like this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

El Payaso

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2014
Messages
3,621
Reaction score
2,624
It depends on the place, time, situation, who the person is and if it's in a group or private setting.

Doing it unprovoked just makes you look like a douche and is not really effective.

I find it best to do it when she insults you first. Nothing beats the potency of a well timed unexpected comeback.

Weight is usually one of the biggest insecurities of most women.

Age is another big one. The older a woman gets, the less attention she starts to get. This can be very unsettling for those who are used to so much attention during their younger years. It's no surprise that the anti aging cosmetics industry is a multi billion dollar industry.

Sometimes, simply ignoring a woman and acting like she doesn't exist works to great effects. Women thrive on attention. Especially male attention. When they don't get it, they feel inadequate. They start to wonder if you don't find them attractive. Without even saying or doing anything, her insecurities start to come up in her mind. "Maybe he thinks I'm fat" or "He probably finds Christina more attractive".

Honestly, I find ignoring and pretending they don't exist to work best. Just go about your business. That way you don't have to worry about how to neg them. Only neg when provoked.
 

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
6,539
Reaction score
11,497
Many girls walk around with an attitude of superiority. Yet I know they are all weak little girls inside. How do I expose them for who they really are?

I have a feeling that many of the bartender/stripper types are like this.
Tell them they have gained weight, they have small boobs, getting wrinkles, anything related to their physical beauty. Tell them they have had a lot of dihk, they are a sluht, they are horrible at sechs, etc.

But I'm not sure why you would ever want to do this.
 
Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,807
Reaction score
851
Location
Florida, USA
Tell them they have gained weight, they have small boobs, getting wrinkles, anything related to their physical beauty. Tell them they have had a lot of dihk, they are a sluht, they are horrible at sechs, etc.

But I'm not sure why you would ever want to do this.
Lol.

Cause it's fun!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
6,539
Reaction score
11,497
Start a post that says "How do I connect with people"?

You want people to feel good about conversing with you, not angry.
 

17 shots

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2016
Messages
1,106
Reaction score
1,018
The only time they show that girly, vulnerable side, is when they're moaning, and squirming around from sex
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Top