"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to find chinks in girls armor?

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Many girls walk around with an attitude of superiority. Yet I know they are all weak little girls inside. How do I expose them for who they really are?

I have a feeling that many of the bartender/stripper types are like this.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It depends on the place, time, situation, who the person is and if it's in a group or private setting.

Doing it unprovoked just makes you look like a douche and is not really effective.

I find it best to do it when she insults you first. Nothing beats the potency of a well timed unexpected comeback.

Weight is usually one of the biggest insecurities of most women.

Age is another big one. The older a woman gets, the less attention she starts to get. This can be very unsettling for those who are used to so much attention during their younger years. It's no surprise that the anti aging cosmetics industry is a multi billion dollar industry.

Sometimes, simply ignoring a woman and acting like she doesn't exist works to great effects. Women thrive on attention. Especially male attention. When they don't get it, they feel inadequate. They start to wonder if you don't find them attractive. Without even saying or doing anything, her insecurities start to come up in her mind. "Maybe he thinks I'm fat" or "He probably finds Christina more attractive".

Honestly, I find ignoring and pretending they don't exist to work best. Just go about your business. That way you don't have to worry about how to neg them. Only neg when provoked.
 

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Many girls walk around with an attitude of superiority. Yet I know they are all weak little girls inside. How do I expose them for who they really are?

I have a feeling that many of the bartender/stripper types are like this.
Tell them they have gained weight, they have small boobs, getting wrinkles, anything related to their physical beauty. Tell them they have had a lot of dihk, they are a sluht, they are horrible at sechs, etc.

But I'm not sure why you would ever want to do this.
 
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Tell them they have gained weight, they have small boobs, getting wrinkles, anything related to their physical beauty. Tell them they have had a lot of dihk, they are a sluht, they are horrible at sechs, etc.

But I'm not sure why you would ever want to do this.
Lol.

Cause it's fun!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Start a post that says "How do I connect with people"?

You want people to feel good about conversing with you, not angry.
 

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The only time they show that girly, vulnerable side, is when they're moaning, and squirming around from sex
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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