How to filter INTERESTING girls

[Tortendieb]

These days I can be quite bored with girls and I notice it's not about entertaining them, but entertaining myself.

I thought about my convos with girls, and I noticed that while some are shallow broads, there are some girls which I became REALLY interested in (not purely because of the body)! So I thought, why not talk about specific things that will make them tell interesting things.

Some topics of mine which led to awesome convo:
- So what do you miss most about home? (if she's foreign or an immigrant)
- Is there anything you'd really like to do some day if you could? (talk about each other's secret ambitions)
- Hey, what's the craziest thing you've ever done? (not too soon in the convo, may lead to sex!)

What are your awesome topics?

 

[ilikecharlene]

I ask her about her interests. if she says stuff like "hmm.. just hanging out, partying, and stuff" well if she's hot i'd only bang her, not date her. :yes:

 

[Tortendieb]

I ask her about her interests. if she says stuff like "hmm.. just hanging out, partying, and stuff" well if she's hot i'd only bang her, not date her. :yes:

Haha I know that when she says "uhm... well meeting friends and listening to music" I think she must be so boring...

Yeah well but how would you advance a convo since she has no interests? I can do small talk all day but you don't really connect like this, if you catch my drift.

 

[oneboy21]

Haha I know that when she says "uhm... well meeting friends and listening to music" I think she must be so boring...

Yeah well but how would you advance a convo since she has no interests? I can do small talk all day but you don't really connect like this, if you catch my drift.

In this case
You need to lead the conversation and take them into way that you wanted. I remembered ross jefferies statement: Seducers state of mind, you need to put them where you want them.

 

[Iceberg]

I don't have any awesome topics. I hate to be over-prepared for a date. Makes it feel like I'm trying to impress people.

I just take the conversation where it needs to go.

 

[yuppaz]

Think its good to talk about a broad variety of things that your into, if she doesn't have much to say about it or her own things she wants to discuss that you think are interesting then just not a great match.

 

[Tortendieb]

I get what you guys are saying, but I've been on quite a number of dates where we're just smalltalking away and no connection at all forms... and by this I mean I'm not interested.

I notice when I can get a girl to tell me a cool story then I'm suddenly interested, and when I'm into her then I go for it.

I've always done it like "don't care, just talk about anything" up till now, but it always ends up boring So at least part of the problem is myself... or everyone I meet is boring?

Crap, I just noticed I want to fall in love pretty bad. I do meet girls but I've become so indifferent these days...

 

[yuppaz]

It's MM style, but if it's real then I wouldn't think of it as canned material - you can talk about interesting stories that convey who you are and things you like.... maybe have a few ready to go.

Like if you are interested in reading about science - you could tell her about this really trippy thing you read about XYZ & ask her if she's ever thought about, watched or read about that stuff

If you are all about sports and competition you can tell her about that and ask if she's ever competed in anything...

I know that sounds kind of canned, but it's real...if it's about what you are really into (key differentiation between just pick up and using the strategy to meet someone you really feel on a deeper level)... I don't think EVERYTHING needs to be spontanious, but then again that doesn't mean you are stacking routines, you are just bringing up topics that interest you. If she has things in common with you it's a good way to find out.



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