"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hockey Playa

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Ok i took the sites advice and now im trying to date multiple woman. So far i have to 2 girls on the go..both at my school..anyways the one girl is like an unknown i went on a date with her the other night and we ended up making out for 2 hours. Im scared though shes gonna mistake it as me exclusivley going for her, and me wanting LTR plans. How do i tell her that i like chilling with her, but dont want to go out with her. Should i say i dont want a GF or something, but that could blow up in my face if i end up dating the other one. If i tell her i don't want to go out with her, will it basically end any physical benefits?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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say stuff like :

i dont wanna rush things and ruin it....
i feel like we are just getting to know each other.
I feel like when u make a premature comitment , that usually the fun goes away ,and everything becomes to serious....

stuff like that ....
just say the truth , but using different words......
 
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Hell yeah...just say all of that **** that girls always say to guys they're leading on!
 
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