“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How to expand my social circle. UK lads?

R1ch4rd

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I've got about 6 best friends. I know a good amount of girls. But I really want branch out meet people in new areas, adventure a bit more. I don't know any fit girls at all. I'm stumped how to do this, I really am.
I went to a all boys secondary school, I'm going to a mixed sixth form in september(but that's not a different area, but can meet new people there)

I want to start spreading out my social circle, I have facebook, but if you talk to guys or girls they are just going to be like "who are you" i can't see no amount of charm is going to do much. In the UK, unless they meet you in person, and/or know you for a while they just won't talk to you. You have your emos, grundgers, chavs etc. I'm just me i dress chavy sometimes then normal kinda of stylish.
I would like guys from the UK prefabley my age to give me some advice, because i do believe it's different here.

I'm 16 1/2, just finishing my GCSEs
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm 17 and British, and what I can tell you is that when you move to a mixed school, your social life will expand hugely, provided that you actually try and socialise and make friends wit the new people you meet. Not only will you have your old out of school friends to kick it with, but you will also gain a whole load of new friends. (Out of school friends gives you a lot of social proof, people become interested when you mention you are going out with friends out of school).

People in the school will become interested in who these newcomers are, and you essentially have a clean slate to do anything with. I suggest you find the popular group asap and begin hanging with them, provided you are confident and bold enough to fulfill their social checklist. Be funny, tease girls you don't know, socialise and meet a lot of people and avoid the loser crews and inbetweeners and you will fulfill their checklists. Also girls will be very interested in a new boy, especially if you are good looking, so get straight to work getting friendly with the hot popular girls, elevate your social proof. Dominate them, flirt with them and tease them to assume your social superiority and become the new alpha male of the school. You will get a lot of attention *****s also looking for fresh meat, bored of the dried up old AFCs they have used. Provided you can sense and avoid falling to their attention seeking ways, they can hugely elevate your social proof as they try to get your attention.

So basically, as soon as you walk into the school, assume superiority, tackle the popular crews and socialise. Be friendly, interesting, funny, ****y and tease the hot girls. Soon you'll be accepted into a popular social group. Also make sure to keep your links to your out of school friends to maintain a strong income of social proof.
 

R1ch4rd

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Thanks man helped alot!. Their be a couple ones trying to be alpha. And there's quite a alot of BOYS from my secondary school going there and most of my current friends, so it won't be clean start as wanted, and that's what i really want. But then i could go to a college and be much cleaner slate, but it's do you choose Academic over Social points?
yes i am a good looking guy luckierly enough :). The school is having a bowling day to introduct new people at the sixth form but i didnt pay the money in time. I was wondering if i should turn up at the bowling alley or try and get a space .
 
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