"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to escalate to sex once she's in your house?

Capt.America

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This girl agreed to come to my house next week. But the thing is I don't know what moves to make that will lead up to sex. I want to be smooth and not all nervous and awkward with it. I need steps in how to transition.

The most i know is we watch tv or a movie and what next? Do I just jump on her and kiss her out of no where? Do I ask lets hav sex? Help please. This is gonna be my first time having a girl over and I don't wanna mess this up and look like a retard who don't know what he is doing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonJuanabe

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How old are you, how old is she, and what time is she coming over?
 

Capt.America

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I'm 18 she's 17 both still in high school. She's coming over after school so like around 1-3ish
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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incognito42

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Yea don't overthink it. Don't worry about "steps". Just put a movie on and lean in and start kissing her. Just be in control and confident, dont make the move with any indecision. If it's gonna happen it won't take anymore than that. Don't be nervous or afraid of rejection, worst case scenario she's not interested but will respect your balls
 

thevilittletroll

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just start to escalate from the moment she walks inside. go up one step of the ladder every couple of mins. if she resists go 2 steps back then one step forward. when you answer the door, greet her by looking into her eyes, tell her she looks amazing while grabbing both of her hands, pull her into you and give her a slow hug, then kiss her on the cheek. continue to touch her throughout the night, and escalating to a sexual manner.

at the end of the day she needs to think to herself, i cant explain it, one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex.
 
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