"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to end dry spell quickly?

Maximummax

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Here is a question for you guys, how do i end this dry spells
I work 9 to 5 job and its been a month i banged a chick, have some plates, but not too close to finish one. i would like to know how do you guys deal with this. Hit bars for happy hour, clubbing on friday nights.....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chamber36

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go to a prostitute
 

NewAndImproved

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Settle.

By this I mean don't let your standards get the best of you. Confidence is built around momentum. During a dry spell your confidence dips but your standards often don't so you end up waiting around the club for the perfect 10 to appear and she never does.

Instead, go out early and approach everyone with intention. Have fun with it. If something hooks and she's not too bad (and your boys aren't around), go for it. But in many cases, by that point, you've already worked yourself into a groove and can now approach and close quality girls. Girls that will not only end your dry spell but start you on a nice streak.
 

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NewAndImproved said:
Settle.

By this I mean don't let your standards get the best of you. Confidence is built around momentum. During a dry spell your confidence dips but your standards often don't so you end up waiting around the club for the perfect 10 to appear and she never does.

Instead, go out early and approach everyone with intention. Have fun with it. If something hooks and she's not too bad (and your boys aren't around), go for it. But in many cases, by that point, you've already worked yourself into a groove and can now approach and close quality girls. Girls that will not only end your dry spell but start you on a nice streak.
+1

That attitude is SO rare on this site, and I am glad to finally see it. Almost everyone here is so wrapped up in only finding the best and hottest at all times. Sometimes you need to bend a little. In all facets of life, not just sarging.

There is nothing wrong with a baseball player choking up and shooting a pitch the opposite way instead of swinging for the fences when in a slump. Nothing wrong with driving the lane looking to make contact instead of a dunk when in a slump. Just because you bend a little, doesn't mean it is going to become a habit. A lot of people talk here as if doing anything aside from perfect technique will ruin you forever.

Do exactly what NewAndImproved said in that final paragraph. If you are attracted enough to a 7, don't just pass her up simply because you have been with a 9 before.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maximummax

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POF sounds like a good and simple idea
any message tips...or should it be a mass massage
 

Mike32ct

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Great replies. Nobody is saying go for fuglies. But to get out of a dry spell, it's a good idea to realize that she probably won't be the prom queen. It's ok. There's plenty of cute, doable ones that are average. Once you get your mojo back, aim higher.
 

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Go and buy a girl 3 drinks. Don't know why 3 exactly but with several girls I've met that seems to be the magic number.
 
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