How To End A Relationship Wisely?

[sweetso]

Hi, Have you ever think how to end a relationship because of some troubles?

Most of people want to end their relationship because of high pressure and emotion, and then they will realize and feel sorry for that.

Any suggestions or experiences How To End A Relationship Wisely? Let us share here

 

[eaglez1177]

Hi, Have you ever think how to end a relationship because of some troubles?

Most of people want to end their relationship because of high pressure and emotion, and then they will realize and feel sorry for that.

Any suggestions or experiences How To End A Relationship Wisely? Let us share here

Not everyone "feels sorry" when they break up with someone. I mean why would you feel sorry for your ex bf/gf if you wanted to break up with them? I know I didnt feel sorry one bit when I broke up with my ex.

And idk why someone would end a relationship because of "high pressure and emotion". What is that even supposed to mean lol? I'd say most people end relationships because theyre either bored of their bf/gf, fight alot, or got cheated on.

I personally broke up with my ex last year because I was just really bored of her. I saw her wayy too much, talked to her wayy too much, and just got bored of all of it, and longed to be single again and get with a bunch of different girls, rather than be stuck with one.

Never break up with someone over a txt or phone call, because that just shows you dont have a pair, and it's pretty douche. I simply just started to stop talking and hanging out with my gf alot more than normal, and then after a few days of that I drove to her house one day after school and told her I didnt wanna go out with her anymore. Never said another word to her at all or saw her again for months, until eventually there would just be some days where I would get horny and would wanna fvck, so I would slowly start talkin to her again, make it seem like I actually still cared (I had no emotional attachment whatsoever, and didnt give a sh*t about her lmao), and then would just fvck her lol. Eventually we became fvck buddies for about 2 months, until I just got bored of fvckin her, and found another girl to bang (its tough to find chicks in HS that you can be just f-buddies with and have no strings attached, cuz alot of chicks see that as being used and feel like slvts.)

If you want you can also read the breakup thread, that would prolly help you too.

 

[Dbr]

Well sweetso, that depends. When I ended my relationships it was because I wanted to, usually for freedom or someone better. You just have to do it. Period. Keep it short. The better if you ain't colleagues.

If you're classmates, work colleagues, etc, just assure her very calmly that it wasn't her fault, that you had your best time around her, yet you must go on. Why this? Because you don't want to look like a jerk in her girlfriend's eyes (wich btw are you colleagues too). If you play it cool and your ex doesn't have remorse, she may even recommend you ;]

If she is the one that dumped you, check this out:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCEQ1XXZTyI

You just leave, no explanations, no questions asked.

She: "I want to beak-up"
You: "Fine".

Then she is expecting you to feel sorry, to crawl back. But you don't. This will shake her reality, and she'll be asking herself "wtf, aren't you supposed to crawl back or smth?". Just show her that you don't give a single f*ck about it, same as picking up.

And she might look for you or change her mind.