"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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escaleraroyal

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hey when a girl doesn't want to give you her digits. What is the best way to eject.....
what i do is:

escalera: give me your digits. I call you out for a coffee sometime.
girl: i have a boyfriend or i dong give out my number or sorry or i'm good....
i turn, dont say anything and walk away...

thats what i do...what do you think and how do you guys do it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In the event of an unrecoverable spin or situation that requires removal from aircraft, raise visor, remove gas mask, steer into wind if possible. Pull the yellow handles located between your legs. If G-forces render you unable to do this, use handles located near head.

Seriously, just tell her to have a good night and leave. The point of this is that if you get all pissy and butthurt about her rejecting you, you're showing your true colors, and it's only going to make her glad she rejected you. Ever see that YouTube video where a guy would be doing nice things for a girl and then hear her say something about a boyfriend and then stop doing said nice thing?

So develop your game to the point where you don't care, and ironically, girls will happen to be single more often and happen to give out their numbers.

When a girl says something about her boyfriend, she's really saying "Sorry, not interested". When she says she doesn't give out her number, what she's really saying is that she doesn't give out her number to guys with weak game/realities. Fix your sh*t.
 
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"ok, it was nice meeting you." then leave. There's a chance in the future she will be single and will remember you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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At least say bye. What if you come across them again in a social gathering or they turn out to be friends of your friends? Turning away without saying anything makes you look like an idiot and its the surest way to burn all bridges. So its better not to do it.
 
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L B said:
"ok, it was nice meeting you." then leave. There's a chance in the future she will be single and will remember you.
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^this. maybe even later that night she remember you as the cool guy that was indifferent.
 
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Vice said:
In the event of an unrecoverable spin or situation that requires removal from aircraft, raise visor, remove gas mask, steer into wind if possible. Pull the yellow handles located between your legs. If G-forces render you unable to do this, use handles located near head.
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You actually know this sh*t? When I was younger we just shouted "Do a barrel roll!"

Anyways, call it what you want, it's a rejection. Sorry, just move on. How to eject, just say bye, enjoy yourself, or something similar. To eject, just do it like Nike. She doesn't think you're quality enough for her. Just go make more muscles and/ or make more money. That's my ruling.

Case closed.
 
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Actually I don't even let them finish their sentence (I have a boy...) I turn around and leave or I turn around and chase the girl who just passed by. I'm not offended or anything, i just don't care. It's day game btw.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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