"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to dump a girl before she dumps you

mrpickles666

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I set a definite date, she said she would confirm the day before, then texted her my address after the call and she never replied. She's obviously going to flake.

What's a good way to dump her before she dumps me? I want to let her go with my dignity intact. I can't have it any other way.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrpickles666

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I made a HUGE mistake when I was already on thin ice to begin with. She thinks she can have me whenever she wants. That fulfills the prophecy.
 

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She don't care.

If you want say to her: My pickle is out of order. Good bye.
 

mrpickles666

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Damn I can't get one positive answer here like "I didn't do anything that bad. And she didn't have to respond to my address text."

My final question: Did she disrespect me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mrpickles666

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Forgot to add: she didn't disrespect you because it seems like she had none to begin with.[/QUOTE]

I guess you're some fvcking psychic pimp. Why don't you tell me on what basis she doesn't have any respect for me big man? You tell me to see if she shows up yet doesn't respect me? What good is she around me then? In that case, SHE should be flaked on and disrespected.
 

mrpickles666

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Dude she's said okay to that stuff before. Maybe she didn't feel the need to say it again? She sounded enthusiastic on the phone. One text ruins it? You're fvcking with my head when I'm trying to see things differently as in not such a negative light.
 

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mrpickles666 said:
I set a definite date, she said she would confirm the day before, then texted her my address after the call and she never replied. She's obviously going to flake.

What's a good way to dump her before she dumps me? I want to let her go with my dignity intact. I can't have it any other way.
You have no dignity intact. You are online begging random men to give you positive praise. To break up with her first just send her a text breaking up. What the funk is so hard about that? Other people gave you equally valid advice but you act like a little b1tch wanting positive praise not mean old practical advice:rolleyes:
 

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Why is your username 666? Maybe that's part of the problem; you're playing for the wrong team.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You have written about 10 threads about this now? Why ask for help if you take none of the things people say to you seriously. There have already been dozens of people out here that have given you solid advice. For once, read it and try to understand it.
 

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LuckyStrike88 said:
You have written about 10 threads about this now? Why ask for help if you take none of the things people say to you seriously. There have already been dozens of people out here that have given you solid advice. For once, read it and try to understand it.
No more threads. She thinks I'm a joke and that's my reputation on this forum too. Oh well... none of you will ever know me. I read it and really there is no advice to give in my case. There's nothing I can do but flake or be flaked on. Case closed.
 
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