Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to dump a girl before she dumps you

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I set a definite date, she said she would confirm the day before, then texted her my address after the call and she never replied. She's obviously going to flake.

What's a good way to dump her before she dumps me? I want to let her go with my dignity intact. I can't have it any other way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I made a HUGE mistake when I was already on thin ice to begin with. She thinks she can have me whenever she wants. That fulfills the prophecy.
 
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She don't care.

If you want say to her: My pickle is out of order. Good bye.
 
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Damn I can't get one positive answer here like "I didn't do anything that bad. And she didn't have to respond to my address text."

My final question: Did she disrespect me?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Forgot to add: she didn't disrespect you because it seems like she had none to begin with.[/QUOTE]

I guess you're some fvcking psychic pimp. Why don't you tell me on what basis she doesn't have any respect for me big man? You tell me to see if she shows up yet doesn't respect me? What good is she around me then? In that case, SHE should be flaked on and disrespected.
 
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Dude she's said okay to that stuff before. Maybe she didn't feel the need to say it again? She sounded enthusiastic on the phone. One text ruins it? You're fvcking with my head when I'm trying to see things differently as in not such a negative light.
 
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mrpickles666 said:
I set a definite date, she said she would confirm the day before, then texted her my address after the call and she never replied. She's obviously going to flake.

What's a good way to dump her before she dumps me? I want to let her go with my dignity intact. I can't have it any other way.
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You have no dignity intact. You are online begging random men to give you positive praise. To break up with her first just send her a text breaking up. What the funk is so hard about that? Other people gave you equally valid advice but you act like a little b1tch wanting positive praise not mean old practical advice:rolleyes:
 
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Why is your username 666? Maybe that's part of the problem; you're playing for the wrong team.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You have written about 10 threads about this now? Why ask for help if you take none of the things people say to you seriously. There have already been dozens of people out here that have given you solid advice. For once, read it and try to understand it.
 
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LuckyStrike88 said:
You have written about 10 threads about this now? Why ask for help if you take none of the things people say to you seriously. There have already been dozens of people out here that have given you solid advice. For once, read it and try to understand it.
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No more threads. She thinks I'm a joke and that's my reputation on this forum too. Oh well... none of you will ever know me. I read it and really there is no advice to give in my case. There's nothing I can do but flake or be flaked on. Case closed.
 
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