"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how to do this?

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Girl I met a while back, hb8, nice body good face, totally doable.

last met was like 9months ago no contact after that. She texts me last week and says I forgot her. We have light talk where I tease her etc and then she says we should meet up. Around 16 hrs later I respond saying "Sure. What days are you free?"


now, I never got a response. But heres the thing. My phone does have a problem of not sending msgs sometimes (it fell), soooo I dont know if she never got my msg and assumed I nexted her, or she did get it but didnt respond.


not knowing that, how should I send a follow up message?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wait a week then text her "hi" Get a new phone ASAP.
 
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That's a tricky situation...a phone not sending messages sometimes which makes you doubtful if it was Ms. Recycle Bin of your phone's carrier that got it. For pete's sake, get a decent phone to avoid this unnecessary circumstance. Or better yet, call her.
An idiot would say you'll come across as needy because you texted her already and then calls for a follow up. That's not about this case so stop worrying, you have a valid reason. Your phone is shltty.

Assuming she got it is shltty. To ease all doubt you got to call her directly and ask her first if she had read that text.

If she does read it. It figures, just be cordial then that'll be the last time you ever contact her.

But if she haven't received your text, then ask her on the spot and if she accepts, then good. If she flakes... just be cordial then that'll be the last time you ever contact her.
 
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