"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to do "Dirty Talk"

European-DJ

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Fellow DJ's,

I have come upon an issue, which i cannot handle myself.
HOW TO DIRTY TALK?

I have been told i am great in bed, but that when it comes to the verbal part, i am way too shy; girls always tell me to do more dirty talk, because i tend to be very dominating in bed, but i almost say nothing but direct messeges telling them what to do.

So please, give me your 101 in dirty talk; this is out of my comfort zone, why i wanna be better at it!


Regards,
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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VikingKing

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If you must, just say somthing like, yeah you like that huh? you dirty girl. honestly a lot of them like to be degraded a little bit.
my ex liked it when I would say, your daddies little girl.
or just whisper in her ear something like, I could **** you forever. Keep it simple.

So degrade a little bit, without being offensive.
 

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"Slvt" is a good word. "Wh0re" will probably work if she likes "slvt." Mix them up with adjectives like "hot, little, and fvcking." Smack her ass when you say it - harder is better than softer. And if she's skinny, she'll have a bony ass. Be careful not to hurt your hand.

Words to avoid: Fat, Stupid, and Cvnt.
 

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All I do is verbalize what is going on, but in a slow, sexy, graphic way.

Yeah baby my cawk is soo big and hard right now. How's it feel all the way up your wet puss? I know you like to feel all of it...


I also would add in questions because you want to "Make HER talk" and say things she's fantasizing/thinking about but is too embarrassed to say.

Mike: I'm gonna @@@ soon. Where do you want to feel it?

HB: <softly> inside

Mike: Baby say it like you mean it. Tell me what you REALLY WANT.

HB: I WANT ALL of YOUR @@@ INSIDE ME.


So to summarize, I would say dirty talk is about 60 percent you talking in a graphic way about what is going on and 40 percent getting HER to talk in a loud graphic way about things she's too embarrassed to say (or say loudly).

Both are great, but making HER talk is a huge turn on for a female.
 

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What's this from:

"The ones your mother laid out for you?"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mr. kennedy

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Is there any tips in the DJ Bible about dirty talk? If not, we should have something.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
What's this from:

"The ones your mother laid out for you?"
I saw that episode of seinfeld

do not use that line.
 

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Mike32ct said:
All I do is verbalize what is going on, but in a slow, sexy, graphic way.

Yeah baby my cawk is soo big and hard right now. How's it feel all the way up your wet puss? I know you like to feel all of it...


I also would add in questions because you want to "Make HER talk" and say things she's fantasizing/thinking about but is too embarrassed to say.

Mike: I'm gonna @@@ soon. Where do you want to feel it?

HB: <softly> inside

Mike: Baby say it like you mean it. Tell me what you REALLY WANT.

HB: I WANT ALL of YOUR @@@ INSIDE ME.


So to summarize, I would say dirty talk is about 60 percent you talking in a graphic way about what is going on and 40 percent getting HER to talk in a loud graphic way about things she's too embarrassed to say (or say loudly).

Both are great, but making HER talk is a huge turn on for a female.
Nailed it. Be very descriptive, tons of adjectives. Describe to her what you're doing to her. Tell her what she's feeling. Get her responding. I'd go more in depth with examples but idk if anyone here wants to read erotica lol. Anyways combine dirty talk with dominating in bed and you'll drive girls crazy.
 
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