"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to do a cold approach in the hall?

jorge5

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Basically the title says it all
but i know basically everyone my age and older and a few a year younger but how do I approach other people who are a year younger?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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kevin1198

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i hope someone answers this cause im having trouble with it to, i dont really have as many conversational options unless its like hey whats up, then i usually get a bland "nothing"
hopefully someone can help us out on this one.

also, how do you deal with her friends?
 

BongDuy

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I've only used this opener once, and although i'm not a big fan of cold approaching, you guys should try it.

It's when the girl you like is around her friends. Go up to her and say something similiar to " hey me and my friend couldn't help but notice you guys, and we were wondering, which one of you is the tough chick?"

When I used it, it went pretty well. I mean, I didn't get rejected and I stayed there for a few minutes before ejecting, but I was a nervous wreck when I did it lol. Try it out and see how it goes. I posted it in my "Senior year field reports" Somewhere, just skim around it until you find it.
 
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