"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to distinguish fake DJs and real DJs on SoSuave?

Babnik

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Post count? Time being here? Number of good posts made? Reputation?

All useless!

Think about this...you could be a real DJ coming here to just brush up or learn something new and then get back to DJing and forget about this forum.

You could be a real AFC and a DJ online having made 1000 posts or more.

You could be a freak dedicated to screwing women and making 1000 posts to show off.

You could be a guy who knows everything there is to know to get girls, but you are still a virgin because you are NOT out there doing it. You still got no balls to apply all the things you learned.


Look at how many OPPOSITE opinions we have! Look at how many flamers we have!

POLLS made here show that most guys here are either virgins or had less than 2 girls!! Almost any AFC can get one girl at some point. She could have been ugly as sin. Some people's rating of HB6 is like HB2 on my list.


Would a real DJ be here for long? How would he distinguish BS from real stuff? Wouldn't he just read the Bible and then say BYE BYE to this place?

There is NO WAY OF TELLING about any of this! How in the RIGHT MIND could you then take advice from a place this?

I mean really...?!?!!?!?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You sound frustrated... Hard to choose what path works best for you right off the bat huh? Sounds a lot like life doesn't it?
 

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Who cares if some one is fake? I don't give a damn if they have plugged 0 or 400 girls. If they give advice that doesn't set off my BS detector, I will use it. If I have beef with what they are saying, I will let them know. The poll about virginity? I didn't participate, then again I must be a virgin. But I am not here to show you numbers, I am here to give advice. Is the PUA who settled down and is no longer looking for ONS not credible enough to give advice about it? If pook was a virgin would you not take his advice simply because he hasn't "banged a hor". I should hope not. Take what you can from this site, leave what doesn't mesh well with you. Don't worry about anything else.
 

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The only thing useful on this forum IMO is approach journals.
 

Jay Jay

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Well

There is so much bull**** here about who is the real deal.

You know what? I don't think many guys here are. You know why? Coz most of my mates are the real deal.

And they would NEVER waste a second of their life with a site like this...

When they heard I was hanging out here to kill time at work they teased **** out of me.

All these guys going on about banging chicks with their alpha male bull****... well they might be champs in the minor league but I don't think many play in the big league.

But that doesn't mean that some advise isn't good. Some dudes obviously really have their **** together.

I'll give ya a good tip to tell.

If someone is telling you to be positive, to reach for your goals and to believe in yourself you should listen. When someone advises you to act with integrity, courage and compassion you should listen.

Finally, when asking for advice trust your instincts. Listen to things that appeal to your higher nature rather than your ego.

Because the guys that get the BEST girls know that the best girls don't fall for games and tactics. They are looking for the best guys. They can see thru the bull****. Thus the guys who are the real deal are the ones encouraging people to be the best they can be... not the guys boasting about all the chicks they ****.

Cheers.

JJ
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jay Jay said:
There is so much bull**** here about who is the real deal.

You know what? I don't think many guys here are. You know why? Coz most of my mates are the real deal.

And they would NEVER waste a second of their life with a site like this...

When they heard I was hanging out here to kill time at work they teased **** out of me.

All these guys going on about banging chicks with their alpha male bull****... well they might be champs in the minor league but I don't think many play in the big league.

But that doesn't mean that some advise isn't good. Some dudes obviously really have their **** together.

I'll give ya a good tip to tell.

If someone is telling you to be positive, to reach for your goals and to believe in yourself you should listen. When someone advises you to act with integrity, courage and compassion you should listen.

Finally, when asking for advice trust your instincts. Listen to things that appeal to your higher nature rather than your ego.

Because the guys that get the BEST girls know that the best girls don't fall for games and tactics. They are looking for the best guys. They can see thru the bull****. Thus the guys who are the real deal are the ones encouraging people to be the best they can be... not the guys boasting about all the chicks they ****.

Cheers.

JJ
 

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Jay Jay said:
...If someone is telling you to be positive, to reach for your goals and to believe in yourself you should listen. When someone advises you to act with integrity, courage and compassion you should listen.
Goals? Positivity? Self belief? Integrity and courage????!!!! Who the fvck thinks up this stuff, it'll never work... All you need is to look hot and have a kick ass pic on Myspace! :D
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Goals? Positivity? Self belief? Integrity and courage????!!!! Who the fvck thinks up this stuff, it'll never work... All you need is to look hot and have a kick ass pic on Myspace! :D
It ironically works...
 

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JJ - Just because you have DJ friends that won't come to this doesn't mean there aren't DJ's on the site. Neither my most AFC friend, or my most DJ friend will go near this site. Personally, I like reading about this stuff!

And to the OP, I've been thinking about this dilemma myself. I'm currently developing the DJ Detector 3000! Works on both natural and synthetic DJ's. I just need $2500 to finish with the prototype. IM me to find where to send the donation. :crackup:
 

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Its really about just going out there and actually seeing for themselves. You get advice from different people its up to the person to actually decide are they going to try one guys advice over the other or try both and see the results. Most people never post back here about there results from trying certain things so no one has any feedback on whether it worked or not.

To me as far as I seen there are many fakes on here, because some of the stuff I learned were straight from guru's and other pretty good PUAs and then sometimes when I see certain posts its like "Wow I've been out sometimes and actually did some of those things being posted about and it didn't work or it did work." Thats why if I do give advice its up to the people to use it or not, because I only post about things that I've experienced.

If someone was posting about getting a 3some I have no experience on that so I wouldn't even post nothing at most I'd probably lead them to that dual induction technique. But its really up to the people to realize what's good and what's not by going out there and trying it.

Post counts don't really matter that much because many good people who try to help in forums like these usually have a high post count because there replying to many different threads.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rex Man said:
JJ - Just because you have DJ friends that won't come to this doesn't mean there aren't DJ's on the site. Neither my most AFC friend, or my most DJ friend will go near this site. Personally, I like reading about this stuff!

And to the OP, I've been thinking about this dilemma myself. I'm currently developing the DJ Detector 3000! Works on both natural and synthetic DJ's. I just need $2500 to finish with the prototype. IM me to find where to send the donation. :crackup:
Yeah, so do I. I realised in hindsite that my post might seem a little bit like a out down. Didn't mean for it to say that. I did try to say that there are some dudes here with their **** together.

And yeah, it is fun to read and talk about.

JJ.

p.s.

I'll buy one of those lie detectors... although can I advise marketing them to online daters?
 
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