How to distinguish between an easy woman and woman that has high interest

[evan12]

easy woman and woman who have high interest in you seem very similar , both make it easy and flirt with you too early , and give you alot of signals and are not resistant to your advance, so how can you tell if she is doing that because she really like you or because she is slvt ?

 

[Bible_Belt]

Another alternative is that it's neither - she just wants someone, and you are in the right place at the right time.

 

[fastlife]

Every woman is easy for the right guy (or the right circumstance as Bible_Belt pointed out). But the best way to screen for a slut is to be 100% nonjudgmental after sex. She'll tell you who she is--or she'll tell you what you want to hear

Bottom line sex and your ego should be totally separate. Enjoy it for the carnal pleasure. And let her show you who she is and what her role in your life should be.

 

[wifehunter]

For me, I just give it time... eventually the truth will make itself known.

An easy girl may just want the salami, whereas a high interest level girl may want more than the salami. Lol!!!

 

[devilkingx2]

Don't sweat such things. As long as she's faithful to you and following whatever other rules you set for her it doesn't matter. Dont get caught up trying to read her mind or being paranoid that she doesn't really like you.

Chances are if she's just a slut she'll be done with you quickly anyway. Like when men pump and dump.

Also the best way to know is to talk about her past, if she refuses to talk about her past take that as a giant red flag, be warned that if you actually like her at all you're not gonna wanna hear anything other than she's a virgin. So careful buddy, don't get hurt asking her about all of the other guys shes been banging.

You'll know if she's a slut if she's banged a disproportionate amount of people to her age (like an 18 year old with half a dozen people she banged.) Or if the circumstances are all questionable(lots of first night lays, lots of people in relationships or while she's in a relationship, banging friends and relatives of people she knows without their permission, etc.)

 

[Bible_Belt]

Don't be afraid to fail.

Agreed. OP shouldn't be afraid of slvts, either. They are a lot of fun!

 

[zekko]

I think the best way to tell is to observe how she behaves when she is around other men. Even better if she doesn't know you are around.

 

[Serenity]

If you can't differentiate then assume the most desired alternative to be true until proven otherwise. How does this safeguard against slvts? It doesn't and that's the point, I'll explain the logic of this game. If she really likes you and you assume she's a slvt and thus treat her with suspicion you've lost if she wasn't a slvt. If she's a slvt and you assume she really likes you thus trust her you've lost. If she really likes you and assume she does then you've clearly won. If she's a slvt and assume she's a slvt you haven't really won, but you haven't lost either.

The sum of all those logical inferences states that you maximize the potential for good a good outcome by assuming the best, the safeguard is to end the assumption when there's enough information to really judge.

Trust that she really likes you until proven otherwise. If she's a slvt she can't hide it forever. You can't tell without it being proven to you, meaning you must take risks to find out the truth.

 

[evan12]

Don't be afraid to fail.

Agreed. OP shouldn't be afraid of slvts, either. They are a lot of fun!

What I am afraid of is to end up in relationship with slvt that may cheat on back. maybe I used to date serious girls so I automatically put any outgoing girl into suspicion