"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to display value?

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I signed up for this new website where you meet travel partners. I won't say the name of the site because I don't want to be accused of advertising, etc. A lot of the girls are very attractive. How do I display value to them?

I know this sounds fake, but I honestly think that status toys like a Lamborghini are the way to compete. I admit it's shallow, but I have lots of guys I'm competing with. Currently, I'm a guy who spends his days doing "blue collar" labor flipping houses. It's probably more than most of the girls do, but also a lot of them are born in poorer countries so they have less opportunity.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Masculinity

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Are you expected to pay for these women?
 
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