"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to discern a submissive, friendly girl

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How to discern a submissive, friendly girl (aka The Eclipse Opener)

I'll move this to Tips in a day or so.

To determine the basic personality of a girl, just walk between her and whatever she's looking at and say "Excuse Me".

If she says "Oh, Sorry", she is actually needlessly apologizing for something that YOU are doing and she will usually turn out to be a very pleasant, submissive and polite girl. She will usually prove to be quite receptive to further conversation, too.

I played around with this today in our antique/boutique district and was very pleased with the results. I REALLY love these girls because they are fundamentally polite and don't have an axe to grind. When you catch one of these, reel her in for an easy catch. Let's just say that your Uncle Atom had more than he could handle this fine afternoon.

Please field test, and if you find value in this, PM me for my PayPal account, where I accept all donations, great and small. ;-)
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Definitely will try this experiment.
 
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what if you find yourself the kind of person who'll act like everything is fine when it's not?
 
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what if you find yourself the kind of person who'll act like everything is fine when it's not?
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I think youll be able to quickly discover the difference between passive aggression and submission/politeness. Especially with a woman.
 
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This technique really does produce for me. It reveals the rare ones who possess a sweet disposition and they are invariably open to further communication. These girls usually value politeness very highly.

I should call this the "Eclipse Opener" because the idea is to sweep between her and whatever has her attention (works best in stores).

Moving to Tips.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Makes perfect sense. And it's utter simplicity makes it brilliant and effective in weeding out b1thces. I'll use it as standard ammo.
 
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I love this, great to get AA out of your mind . will test tonight at the mall or gym.

Edit- didnt get out today, had to go to the hospital. will test tomorrow and report back.
 
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Atom Smasher again.

I love this...just seems fun to try...great contribution A.S.
 
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Then all you know is that she is more polite than most and she deserves further investigation.
 
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