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They're all *****s and jealous of each other.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to defend a redpill relationship from blupill and feminists?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Well, unlike men, women do not need conflict resolution skills, because typically they just either win or get somebody else to win for them, so the skill of resolving conflicts is often just not there when it comes to women and conflict resolution is the most important skill to have when engaging in a debate.
So, as long as you know that you are not going to be engaged in open debate, but open conflict and one that will probably never end unless her mind changes and its not going to change, at least not anytime soon, I would feel free to defend your ideals.
So, as long as you know that you are not going to be engaged in open debate, but open conflict and one that will probably never end unless her mind changes and its not going to change, at least not anytime soon, I would feel free to defend your ideals.
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In terms of your girlfriend, you have to understand that each couple has 2 individuals and those individuals are pressing their ideals onto her every second they can when you are not there... I think a lot of guys have replied with the answer "You can't do anything, just live your life" because the writing is kind of on the wall here, women are social creatures, the teams are not balanced, you have an uphill battle ahead of you in terms of your girlfriends social life and honestly, one you are probably going to lose.
Its just what it is, women are so easily influenced by those around them, its a difficult situation for sure, because even when her friends are on the rocks with their relationship, they'll pretend everything is great, just to prove their point about their ideals.
If i'm jumping the gun here, somebody please check me, but this seems like a wrap.
Its just what it is, women are so easily influenced by those around them, its a difficult situation for sure, because even when her friends are on the rocks with their relationship, they'll pretend everything is great, just to prove their point about their ideals.
If i'm jumping the gun here, somebody please check me, but this seems like a wrap.