How to deal with...

[Trance]

a) You are in a club, you start dancing with a groups of girls, you aproach and start talking to one, but the music is really loud for you to make any significative talk.

b) You see some girls, you aproach. Still the music is too loud, so you cant talk to the entire group, so you can only talk to one being real close to her. And then the other(s) probably will ****block you, talking to their friend since she is getting the atention, and they are feeling left aside, specially if its only 2 girls.

c) General loud music environments, how to deal with?



Now other aspect, about clothing and habbits:

a) If you are a smoker, if a girl that isnt see's you smoking, will her IL lower? Im talking about aproaches, not girls you already know.

b) If you dress more like Hip hop style, what will your chances decrease with more sofisticated girls, like tops, mini skirt, makeup style? And vice versa.
So the point is, do you guys adapt you clothing to the environment, or just go to environments of the same kind or what?

 

[Player_Supreme]

a) You are in a club, you start dancing with a groups of girls, you aproach and start talking to one, but the music is really loud for you to make any significative talk.


You do what's called the take-away. Get her to another place. take her outside...to a dark corner...to another environment.

If your just dancing stick to the dance and keep the words very little. you should be working on your kino and getting her turned on by the way you dance...not jibber jabbing over loud music....it's a waste of time.

If your interested in her and she in you...then tell her "let's go over here...ie the take away spot...corner...outside...where we can talk for a moment"

Each step in the seduction process is just that a step. your trying to many at once. dance and spit game...

 

[Life-Trainee]

Originally posted by Trance
a) You are in a club, you start dancing with a groups of girls, you aproach and start talking to one, but the music is really loud for you to make any significative talk.

b) You see some girls, you aproach. Still the music is too loud, so you cant talk to the entire group, so you can only talk to one being real close to her. And then the other(s) probably will ****block you, talking to their friend since she is getting the atention, and they are feeling left aside, specially if its only 2 girls.


c) General loud music environments, how to deal with?

Can you use hand singnals/ gestures to indicated that you want to talk to her?

Now other aspect, about clothing and habbits:

a) If you are a smoker, if a girl that isnt see's you smoking, will her IL lower? Im talking about aproaches, not girls you already know.

b) If you dress more like Hip hop style, what will your chances decrease with more sofisticated girls, like tops, mini skirt, makeup style? And vice versa.
So the point is, do you guys adapt you clothing to the environment, or just go to environments of the same kind or what?

I found smoking to be a great initiator for social conversations. I smoke casually but I do carry some cigs and lighter with me all the time "just in case". I started couple of conversations with girl asking me whether I had a light.

As for dress code, there's no generic one I bet. When you dress a certain way you already disqualify against at least one type of shallowness. It's up to you whether you want to associate yourself with a group or stand out. Latter one is probably better.

 

[AFK Protector]

DRUGS ARE BAD. MMMKAY?

I dress up in a tux.suit with a bow tie and go to invitational balls. The women there respect my mind and body. I'm average with almost everything (looks, height, weight, etc.), but I'm unusually smart. So all the women there are all dressed up hot and moderately revealing. The music isn't loud, so I can make lots of moves and score most of the time. Thing is, there are lots of big time rich people with hit men, and I get "hints" to leave their woman alone if things get too hot.

My advice:

1) DRUGS = <(x_x<)
All my women friends say smoke is a big turnoff because they gag/choke. I'm like the only guy that doesn't smoke/drink on campus. I drink wine and stuff, but at parties, I'm that designated driver.

2) YELL YOUR PHUCKING HEAD OFF. or tap her on the shoulder and talk in a slightly quieter spot outside....or your car

3) Dress sharp. Don't dress just to draw attention because a naked mothaphucka will draw attention too.

GL, HF, DD.

 

[Trance]

Its a lot more harder to convince her to go somewhere more quiet if you havent even exchanged more than a few words with her because of the music, that's my point. Its a hard situation yea, but i like challenges

 

[rrrrr]

Trance I agree with you on this one thats why I hate clubs, bars are nice but the people there tend to be older. Does anyone have any suggestions. I have a deep low voice, not Barry White but pretty low so I can't yell for too long.