"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wastedyears

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How to deal with rude/mean *****es :D. You heard me right...

Mind you, I'm not referring to those woman who reject your offer to make out at your place after a nights out, or those who reject your advances politely.

I'm referring to those down right mean and nasty *****es who evidently want to make your life miserably for god knows what reason

While multiple sites have dish out advice on how to attract woman, what they did not teach us is how to deal with mean girls :cool:

So lets look at the three commonly discuss male prototypes and discuss how they would deal with them.

P.S Sorry no Hannibal lecter types or karate kid type mentioned....we all know how they would end up but you can discuss if u want to :D

The Nice Guy
The Bad Boy
The Real Man
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Krueg

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I've ran into women like that before, I'd say half were dykes just being usual man haters. Theres no reasoning with mean b!tches. Just ignore them and be glad your not with em!
 

abbey sha

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Wastedyears said:
How to deal with rude/mean *****es :D. You heard me right...

Mind you, I'm not referring to those woman who reject your offer to make out at your place after a nights out, or those who reject your advances politely.

I'm referring to those down right mean and nasty *****es who evidently want to make your life miserably for god knows what reason

While multiple sites have dish out advice on how to attract woman, what they did not teach us is how to deal with mean girls :cool:

So lets look at the three commonly discuss male prototypes and discuss how they would deal with them.

P.S Sorry no Hannibal lecter types or karate kid type mentioned....we all know how they would end up but you can discuss if u want to :D

The Nice Guy
The Bad Boy
The Real Man
Yes I agree with you thanks for giving information.
 

londonguy89

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People like that always have a massive insecurity/weakness they are trying to hide. Identify it and fight back. I don't think "nice guy" or "bad boy" is the way to go. Be a "real man" find the weakness and match her level of agression/*****iness. But that's only if you need to. i.e. if you see her regularly or you're in a group where she is trying to lower your status. Otherwise just move on, relax.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Smile and walk away, with a thought,

LOL THEY MUST BE REALLLL MISERABLE INSIDE LOLOLOLOLLOL
 
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