How to deal with women that won't leave you alone even after you reject them a lot?

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

Before I start this thread I want to say I have nothing against any race but this is something I have picked up on in my social interactions which have come from going out and forming social circles over the years. I have noticed that Black American women tend to either not notice when I lack any interest in them or don't take too well to it. For example, a year ago I met this Black girl who seemed to take a lot of interest in me. I told her that I wasn't interested in her and I made it pretty clear. For some odd reason one of her friends (a Black guy) tried to persuade me into liking Black women but I wasn't interested I am just not attracted to Black women. Well weeks after I would meet a brunette and we would get into a relationship.

This girl sees us holding hands and for some reason she just erupts. You guys will find it hard to believe but racist things started leaving her mouth. She said something like "oh so you gonna be with a white ***** but not me, (n word) you ain't White".

I did nothing to even indicate that I had interest in this girl and I am not even Black. For some reason though this girl just erupted and I was in a very awkward situation. It got nasty because she kept on shouting at us and my girlfriend at the time was looking at me like what was going on.

That isn't the only time either. For some reason I tend to attract a lot of Black and Mexican girls.

I often notice that Black girls will usually approach me and if I even let them into my life in the slightest (as friends) they will ask if I am into black girls. When I reply no, some will just move on but a lot will try to reason with me and try to ask stuff like "so if (insert black celeb) wanted you you would say no?".

Truth is even though I don't hate any race, I am just not attracted to girls with dark skin and African features. I am a Middle Eastern male and I am primarily into White women and Middle Eastern women and that is all I have dated.

I have just found that Black American women generally don't take as kindly to rejection and most tend to try and push the action with me. Now I don't want to make it so I am avoiding talking to any woman that is Black but this is something I have noticed. I don't see it much with foreign Black women but I see it a lot with Black American women who are younger, why is this?

Any way to handle it?

 

[chath]

You use womanese. Now that may be difficult to do with minority races, as there may be a language barrier or they just aren't used to it. But normally saying things like "i think of you as a sister" are pretty big turn offs for them. What you want to be searching for online is "womanese rejection" http://www.rsdnation.com/node/351631

 

[RagingBalls]

You're in a mess not of your doing man. I can only feel how bad that predicament was for you and your gf.
You can't always avoid her and she might also have been stalking you or spying where you'll be going out, the best move i think that you must do is to seek the help of local authorities about it, i know you don't want any trouble and want to live as peacefully without any hassles but from what's happening, i think you need to do that for you and your gf's sake. Be safe.