how to deal with woman who think u r a player?

[gruby]

There is this owman i went out with. She works with me from time to time. Last time one of my coworkers during lunch started talking about all the stories how i get the women i want. True stories that i knew help but at the same time it cast me in the wrong shadow of a player.

So today i go out with this woman who listened to teh above story and after a few drinks we go to a club and start dancing. Soon she says that she has to go home. I heard this "I have to go home" before and it means usually "Im too turned on and i wont be responsibe for my acctions so its better if i go home now before slpeeing with you" I play cool and try to stop her from leaving but she does anywa.... SO how do i progress with a woman who assumes you r a player?

 

[wheelin&dealin]

There is this owman i went out with. She works with me from time to time. Last time one of my coworkers during lunch started talking about all the stories how i get the women i want. True stories that i knew help but at the same time it cast me in the wrong shadow of a player.

So today i go out with this woman who listened to teh above story and after a few drinks we go to a club and start dancing. Soon she says that she has to go home. I heard this "I have to go home" before and it means usually "Im too turned on and i wont be responsibe for my acctions so its better if i go home now before slpeeing with you" I play cool and try to stop her from leaving but she does anywa.... SO how do i progress with a woman who assumes you r a player?

If she thinks you're a player... that's a good thing. Women always want to be the one to convert you to the husband type.

 

[CORVETTE06]

same thing happened to me

she was into me but she thinks im a "slut"


seee my post http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=135858

 

[PlaysToWin]

My girlfriend spent a few months trying to decide whether I was a player or a genuine nice guy. I deliberately left her guessing between the two. She lapped it up. Use it to your advantage. Keep her guessing.

 

[Naughtyboy]

There is this owman i went out with. She works with me from time to time. Last time one of my coworkers during lunch started talking about all the stories how i get the women i want. True stories that i knew help but at the same time it cast me in the wrong shadow of a player.

So today i go out with this woman who listened to teh above story and after a few drinks we go to a club and start dancing. Soon she says that she has to go home. I heard this "I have to go home" before and it means usually "Im too turned on and i wont be responsibe for my acctions so its better if i go home now before slpeeing with you" I play cool and try to stop her from leaving but she does anywa.... SO how do i progress with a woman who assumes you r a player?

For starters, women thinking u r a player is way better than them thinking you r a loser. So u have a great advantage

Keep flirting. Emphasise that u r forced to jump from girl to girl bcos u cant find one 'special enough'. Make her work hard to convince u that she's 'special'

 

[kakashi]

yea being thought of as a player is SUPERB. she doesn't like that your controlling the frame and is trying to reclaim her usual pedestal that men give her.

if she asks if your a player or if you do this to all the girls you've got two options

1) over exaggerate, "yea well i thought talking to you would make it a nice round 40 for today"

2) push pull her, "only the adventurous ones...blah blah...i thought you were perhaps i was wrong...blah blah...if i am this friendship will never work out.