"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How to deal with this?
- Thread starter xupc
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
It's been awhile since I've been to China. I traveled back and forth with work to Shanghai from 2004-2008. The only difference is the way they show interest... it is VERY hard to read them. But if you assume interest and do what you usually do then they are not that different from women everywhere. They are attracted to the same male traits as Western women. The really beautiful ones have a sh!t load of dudes after them, so they are very particular, even average looking women have 3 or 4 chasing them... and buy and large Chinese men don't know what the fvck they are doing... they really have terrible game. The result is Chinese women by and large don't have that much respect for men and assume you are weak until you prove them different.
There was one that I was seeing on a regular bases from 2007-8, she used to get these orbiters to drive her all over the place. Once I got into the city a day early and called her and she said she would meet me in my hotel room when I got settled in. I met her outside and some dude was dropping her off. After we did our thing, another dude came and picked her up (because I had a dinner meeting).... then later that night she had yet ANOTHER guy dropping her off... It was very odd. I could not believe that these guys were doing this sh!t. Can you imagine any self respecting man dropping of or picking up a women so some other guy can conveniently fvck them.
There was one that I was seeing on a regular bases from 2007-8, she used to get these orbiters to drive her all over the place. Once I got into the city a day early and called her and she said she would meet me in my hotel room when I got settled in. I met her outside and some dude was dropping her off. After we did our thing, another dude came and picked her up (because I had a dinner meeting).... then later that night she had yet ANOTHER guy dropping her off... It was very odd. I could not believe that these guys were doing this sh!t. Can you imagine any self respecting man dropping of or picking up a women so some other guy can conveniently fvck them.
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You can't be serious.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Yep... one of the negative side effects of China's "One Child" policy... women there are high on a pedestal, and men were raised in a socialist society where their masculine nature has been suppressed, where individual pride and self interest is minimized. They are a nation of Cucks.
Oh man. You are ABSOLUTELY right. I have SO MANY stories of beta behaviour from Chinese guys... They have no game.. and they live the romantic ideal. I have no time for these stuff anymore. They ARE a nation of cucks. I mean we were out with friends and she was touching me over the table while they were discussing how happy they are now that they will get married.. I pulled away but she was not giving up.. seriously.. some really ****ed up stories from Chinese beta guys in CN.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.