How to deal with this.

[Crazy Asian]

ok this chick i know is fo sho into me.

at first she was all around me, and before school started, found and sat down with me b4 school started.
when i didn't have class one day, she sat at a table next to mine while i was talking so some friends, and just sat there by herself. She obviously wanted my attention, so i decided to have fun, and waited like 5-10 min before i talked to her.... lol she looked like an idiot sitting there. ANYWAY....

now i believe she is playing hard to get. ALL OF A SUDDEN, she ignores me and does all the stuff that shows no interest. So this makes me think she's playing hard to get. So how to i get her interested in me, w/o me asking her out? Cause i don't want a relationship right now cause i have too much sh1t going on, and my parents blah blah....

I know that she is ALREADY into me, but how do i get her to stop pulling this sh1t on me? cause eventually (prob winter formal) i'll ask her out... jsut not right now.

*don't mind the bad grammer lol*

 

[Obsidian]

a relationship can't exist if two people are using these idiotic manipulative strategies

moreover, a good relationship can't exist if the woman is the only one trying to lead

 

[Crazy Asian]

WHOAH!
that was an insane fast response.... now lemme read it. lol

 

[Crazy Asian]

i understand what ur saying about how i shouldn't be playing games with her. But i'll be like a dog wanting a bone if i am the one starting the convo and initiating EVERY TIME...

 

[Obsidian]

I think you're being too passive. You need to invite her out somewhere to isolate her. Don't just try to hang out with her during school; that's what friends do.

The trouble, of course, is that you're only fifteen and therefore probably can't drive...Hmm. It's hard to ask girls out if you can't go anywhere. Not sure what to do about that.

This probably oughta be in the High School forum. I was never real great with girls in high school (in fact, i'm not real great now either!) so i don't have any real stellar advice. But don't put up with her crap.

 

[COD]

sheesh learn how to flirt..........SAY WHY U SITTING ALL THERE BY YOURSELF.............COME HERE I WANT TO SMELL YOUR NECK.

UMMM ARE YOU STALKIN ME...........cause like U are kinda cute and I was wondering if you are stalking me..........its ok if you are, just dont show up holding a knife when I take a shower.

pLAYING HARD TO GET............sheesh girl we needs to talk about your low confidence, its 2007 and chics are allowed to ask guys out now.


seriously............DHV your ass in front of her............THEN do some NEG hits, C & F routines.

Its all good and heres da thing..............DIS STUFF ACTUALLY WORKS!!!


...............lose the big fake gold bling bling neclace though........just kiddin

M

 

[Crazy Asian]

haha yeah not being able to drive sucks.

I AM THE ONLY PERSON IN MY GRADE THAT CAN'T DRIVE.

EVERYONE ELSE IS 16-17.

haha, but she can drive, so thats cool.

i could invite her + some other friends over my house to play poker + video games..... but i'm not sure girls are into that..... what are stuff that girls + guys can do together? instead of movies.

 

[Crazy Asian]

sheesh learn how to flirt..........SAY WHY U SITTING ALL THERE BY YOURSELF.............COME HERE I WANT TO SMELL YOUR NECK.

UMMM ARE YOU STALKIN ME...........cause like U are kinda cute and I was wondering if you are stalking me..........its ok if you are, just dont show up holding a knife when I take a shower.

pLAYING HARD TO GET............sheesh girl we needs to talk about your low confidence, its 2007 and chics are allowed to ask guys out now.


seriously............DHV your ass in front of her............THEN do some NEG hits, C & F routines.

Its all good and heres da thing..............DIS STUFF ACTUALLY WORKS!!!


...............lose the big fake gold bling bling neclace though........just kiddin

M

ok, first of all, i don't believe that this stuff should be used as technique. Some of it can be, but what i've gotten from this site is an idea of how to act around woman, and the mindset that you should have. I've already done attracting her. And yes i do flirt with her.... but i'm the one that has to start the convo everytime..... maybe it's cause now that she's attracted to me, i intimidate her.

 

[Crazy Asian]

that exactly wut i did.

i just left her there for 5 min for the fun of it, but then flirted with her afterwards.

but i'll do something with her soon.

 

[aussiegoat55]

a relationship can't exist if two people are using these idiotic manipulative strategies

moreover, a good relationship can't exist if the woman is the only one trying to lead

Anti Dump, real good reading material.