"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to deal with this idiot and the 48 laws of power?

Stephen89

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I'm writing this quicky, so it may not sound coherent.

Unfortunately in the past for some time I got belittled, put down, ostracised, disrespect, public humiliation by this cousin.

He acts loud, manipulates others. Sly.

I did report him and for them to manipulate others. Twist.

My relatives also dismiss and gaslight.

He has ignored my achievements and success. He won't run a series of busineses. Real freedom, financial freedom, fulfillment, happiness. Do whatever I want. I have a range of interests and hobbies.

I have interesting talks.

His job has a lot of responsibility and for sure stressful. No fulfillment.

He doesn't know me or anything.

He is very arrogant.

I am blocking him, not there, keeping my distance, keeping well away, not communicating, keeping my physical, digital distance, being silent, not being involved, not in any groups of his etc.

What else can I do and how can I use the 48 laws of power?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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