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how to deal with this flake??????

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so this girl I have been gaming via tinder/fb on Friday out of the blue
asks me to meet on Sunday ( if I am not busy )

of course I played it cool and said, yeah I have to go somewhere but at nine I can stop by this sushi place. She agreed and we set the date for 9.

Sunday comes and at 8pm I get this message:

hey is it possible to reschedule? I just got inside ultra and won't make it

( ultra is that faggoty electronic music festival in miami where all retards go
get high )

I replied with:

hmm you wont be able to make it?

her: no, sorry :(

me: ok enjoy ultra



----



that was it....

now, she did ask for a reschedule but i havent made my move yet.


Ideas?

I have 3 plates im constantly banging so I really dont care much, except that this could be the hottest plate of them all.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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You had a date but she cancelled and went partying instead? Delete her number, her words mean nothing.
 

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Mr Wright said:
You had a date but she cancelled and went partying instead? Delete her number, her words mean nothing.
thats exactly how i feel..... but if i can get one date im sure i can bang her good once and then do as you say.... that will give her hamster a dosage of reality.

I am not looking for a relationship
 

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Mr Wright said:
You had a date but she cancelled and went partying instead? Delete her number, her words mean nothing.

also, she was the one with the data idea.... so her interest was there and it was the last night of that festival.

I feel that if i play dumb I can get her to drive to my place of choosing to make up for it and then unleash the beast.

She is from an easter europe country and my soviet game is strong
 

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its not so complicated. She said if you could reschedule which is fine. Tell her another time and if she flakes again saying anything that sounds like an excuse, you just DO NOT REPLY, you dont send 'ok no problem' neither just 'ok', you just go ghost, and if she texts you again you reply but without much enthusiasm, I mean, dont jump inmediately and ask for another date.

It is obvious that her IL is not super high, but it does not matter, not every girl has very high interest from the begining.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Sooooo, lemme get this straight:

1. She sets a date with you
2. She agrees to a date and time
3. 1 hour before she's supposed to show up, she cancels on you with some excuse about going to Ultra... despite the fact that Ultra happens all weekend long, meaning she could have gone on Friday and Saturday

Bottom line: you weren't a high priority. Get rid of her - it only gets worse from here.
 

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ill play it by ear this week, she needs to come up with the second date.

@Harry..."it only gets worse from here."

couldnt care less since I wont be there...

sofia loren in her 20s couldnt get me to commit right now. :)
 

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Normally, I'd say next her but since she was the one who set up the date, flaked but asked to reschedule, is say text her before this weekend and say "we're meeting at so-so place". If she flakes again, then you can next her.
 

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Tell her to come over and cook for you to make up for flaking. Eastern Europeans are good cooks. Then bang. Two for one.
 

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ositosucio said:
so this girl I have been gaming via tinder/fb on Friday out of the blue
asks me to meet on Sunday ( if I am not busy )

of course I played it cool and said, yeah I have to go somewhere but at nine I can stop by this sushi place. She agreed and we set the date for 9.

Sunday comes and at 8pm I get this message:

hey is it possible to reschedule? I just got inside ultra and won't make it

( ultra is that faggoty electronic music festival in miami where all retards go
get high )

I replied with:

hmm you wont be able to make it?

her: no, sorry :(

me: ok enjoy ultra

that was it....
You're taking her word at face value and you're assuming that she was even AT the music festival.

ositosucio said:
now, she did ask for a reschedule but i havent made my move yet. Ideas?
Then don't. If she wants you, she'll come and see about you.

I have 3 plates im constantly banging so I really dont care much, except that this could be the hottest plate of them all.
Yes you do, otherwise you wouldn't have made this post about this chick that's not only subjecting you to test of excremental fortitude, (which you're about to fail,) but also doesn't honor her commitments and has shown blatant disrespect for you and your time.

ositosucio said:
but if i can get one date im sure i can bang her good once and then do as you say.... that will give her hamster a dosage of reality.
1) Why do you want to do this?

2) How does getting to know this woman carnally improve your quality of life?

3) What benefit do you expect to derive from supplicating yourself to some Eastern European slut?


ositosucio said:
but if i can get one date im sure i can bang her good once and then do as you say.... that will give her hamster a dosage of reality.
1) You're assuming that she wants to get to know you carnally.

2) You're assuming that she will even care.


I am not looking for a relationship
But you're clowning yourself in hopes of indulging in coitus with a chick that has sent you a clear message that she doesn't want you.

ositosucio said:
She is from an easter europe country and my soviet game is strong
:crackup: What the eff is "Soviet game?" What are you going to do? Finger pop her hot as you talk about the geopolitical situation in Chimera and the Ukraine? Soviet game, sounds as ridiculous as text game.

pyros said:
It is obvious that her IL is not super high, but it does not matter, not every girl has very high interest from the begining.
So what is he going to do to raise her IL after she broke the date?

El Payaso said:
but since she was the one who set up the date, flaked but asked to reschedule, is say text her before this weekend and say "we're meeting at so-so place". If she flakes again, then you can next her.
SMH at giving her pass on being disrespectful. Flaking, (regardless as to who set up the date CAN NOT BE TOLERATED! It gives the chick control of the frame and as Harry said, sets a VERY BAD PRECEDENT.
 

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ositosucio said:
Of course I played it cool

her: no, sorry :(

I have 3 plates im constantly banging so I really dont care much, except that this could be the hottest plate of them all.
The guys who try to play it cool, usually end up looking like a fool when they chase a girl with no interest. Don't you guys talk with these chicks first to see if there is any mutual interest before you try to ask them out? Obviously she isn't interest in going out with you. Ignoring flakes is the best thing you can do. Funny how these guys always claim they're banging 3 plates when they're obsessed in asking out the one flake.

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ositosucio,

Seems like you just want to argue with the posters who are giving you advice. Since you have all the answers to your problems figured out, why even bother to make a thead asking for help? Trolls usually do a real good job of that.
 
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hmmm a lot of assumptions and reading comprehension problems here



"You're taking her word at face value and you're assuming that she was even AT the music festival."

I agree with this but irrelevant.


"Then don't. If she wants you, she'll come and see about you."

That's exactly what i will do. Since she came up with the idea of the meetup in the first place.


"Yes you do, otherwise you wouldn't have made this post about this chick that's not only subjecting you to test of excremental fortitude, (which you're about to fail,) but also doesn't honor her commitments and has shown blatant disrespect for you and your time."

Wrong. I made the post to see how other members would react. And nobody will fail since there is nothing to fail.


"1) Why do you want to do this?

2) How does getting to know this woman carnally improve your quality of life?

3) What benefit do you expect to derive from supplicating yourself to some Eastern European slut?"

1-nothing at all but add another notch to the list.

2-it doesnt. Who said it does?

3- Supplicating? I havent supplicated to anybody. Male or female.



"1) You're assuming that she wants to get to know you carnally.

2) You're assuming that she will even care."


1- She set up the date, not me. I have been texting her and she has been reacting to it. I have my FB littered with pics of chics i am banging or will bang. As soon as she added me on FB she started chasing. Simple as that.

2- She doesnt care becasue she doesnt know me. if it happens she will. Simple as that. I see this script play over and over again and I turn down ***** daily from chics that were exactly like this at the beginning.



"But you're clowning yourself in hopes of indulging in coitus with a chick that has sent you a clear message that she doesn't want you."

Hopes? I dont care but I will work it to a minimum to get it to happen. That's what I do. And the message is not that that my friend. I have banged countless *****es that behaved exactly the same.


"What the eff is "Soviet game?" What are you going to do? Finger pop her hot as you talk about the geopolitical situation in Chimera and the Ukraine? Soviet game, sounds as ridiculous as text game."

Soviet game was meant to be a joke. I have ****ed at least 5 of these chics ( including my exwife who was from Minsk ) Dont assume ****.

I speak some russian and know those countries well. Cuba was a Russian colony from many years and I grew up with these ****ers. I know which buttons to press.

"So what is he going to do to raise her IL after she broke the date?"

Nothing. by Thursday ill give her a time and a place. If she goes great if not she is out. I need my foot in the door. that's it

"SMH at giving her pass on being disrespectful. Flaking, (regardless as to who set up the date CAN NOT BE TOLERATED! It gives the chick control of the frame and as Harry said, sets a VERY BAD PRECEDENT."


I agree 100% here.

From GoldenGoose
The guys who try to play it cool, usually end up looking like a fool when they chase a girl with no interest. Don't you guys talk with these chicks first to see if there is any mutual interest before you try to ask them out? Obviously she isn't interest in going out with you. Ignoring flakes is the best thing you can do. Funny how these guys always claim they're banging 3 plates when they're obsessed in asking out the one flake.

She was, She came up with the plan. Just not high enough IL ...YET.

Obsessed? lol....no buddy. I leave the obsession for the gym.
As soon as she flaked yesterday and went straight to one of my plate's house.

Here is a pic:
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/601938/haru.jpg
 

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Harry Wilmington said:
Sooooo, lemme get this straight:

1. She sets a date with you
2. She agrees to a date and time
3. 1 hour before she's supposed to show up, she cancels on you with some excuse about going to Ultra... despite the fact that Ultra happens all weekend long, meaning she could have gone on Friday and Saturday

Bottom line: you weren't a high priority. Get rid of her - it only gets worse from here.
This is LOL advice. She got tickets somehow to a douchey festival that the majority of woman would go nuts for. You expect her priority or any other girls priority to be higher for a guy met on Tinder? Sounds like no relationship between the two was ever actually built, no sane girl would leave a concert/festival for a random guy.

If some 10 and I had a date set up but a buddy of mine told me he got an extra ticket to see a band I loved, sorry miss 10 but the concert is more important. Does that mean I have no/low interest in her? No it means something I value comes first before random hot girl dates, even if it means discarding plans.
 

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TenOfSpades said:
This is LOL advice. She got tickets somehow to a douchey festival that the majority of woman would go nuts for. You expect her priority or any other girls priority to be higher for a guy met on Tinder? Sounds like no relationship between the two was ever actually built, no sane girl would leave a concert/festival for a random guy.

If some 10 and I had a date set up but a buddy of mine told me he got an extra ticket to see a band I loved, sorry miss 10 but the concert is more important. Does that mean I have no/low interest in her? No it means something I value comes first before random hot girl dates, even if it means discarding plans.
most of his advice is lol. I wouldn't worry about it. You haven't even met her yet she doesn't really know you at all. I would game her for day or two and set up another date later in the week.
 

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nismo-4 said:
Sorry, your princess is in another castle!

Delete her.

Case closed.

nope. not case closed.

She wrote. Apologized. Proceeded to explain why it happened and said she wanted to make it up to me.

So I selected time and place and it is on.

another flake she is out.


But, it looks solid.
 

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here is the chat:


her: Hey I'm so sorry about the other night. I wasn't supposed to go but I was there and got like 2 tickets for $100 so I couldn't pass up that opportunity

me: did you have fun?!?!

Yes, I had a blast! My feet were killing me because I decided to wear 6 inch wedges lol

Me:
I understand! I would have done exactly the same thing. But now you need to make it up to me!

Lol I'll try my best

me: K I still want sushi

her: We can do sushi either Friday or this weekend

me:K cool. Friday 9

her:I started working this week so I don't have that much free time anymore

her Sounds good

me: It better be a tsunami hitting Miami if you cancel again miss.

her: Haha look who's the feisty one now

me: Lol my humor is very intense!I don't like docile princesses. I love a girl with characterIt allows me to show off my lioness taming abilities.
 

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nismo-4 said:
Sorry, your princess is in another castle!

Delete her.

Case closed.
the princess castle thing is more used for when you lose a girl or she loses interest.

In this case this broad hasn't even met me yet.

Like other members posted....

Pardner and I share exactly the same opinion and mindset.

If this **** happens after a date then it is game over.
 

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