"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to deal with Stress??

Shaik

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First off, hello and hope you're having a fine day :]

So... today has been one of the worst day ever from having big ass ****roaches infesting my room to the tumultuous stress from scraping 2 cars in a parking garage... Along with monetary problems, this is just piling up a big pile of craption that is taking a HUGE toll on me, mentally.

I just want to know how most of you guys deal with your daily stress? (no matter how big or small) What are the best remedies for the situations?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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piranha45

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Hobbies and sexual release. Back massages are great too.
 

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Catharsis. Write about whats stressing you out so you dont continue to think about it...purge your mind if you will.
 

oakraiderz2

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Catharsis. Write about whats stressing you out so you dont continue to think about it...purge your mind if you will.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GQ_Confidence_1

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Try to have a time out.

Today I did a few things that were fun...

-Went to this park overlooking the beach. Saw this *hot* yoga instructor on the grass instructing some kids. Her va va vooms caught my attention 50 feet away, lol. Hard not to stare, wow. Hottest yoga instructor I think I've seen this year.

-Took family dog on a walk in the late afternoon, early evening. 3 cute women commented on her. And sitting, relaxing for an hour at this little park nearby.

You try to count the positive. Pretty good day overall though. I think walking is good. I always walk with no music, good to clear your mind.
 

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Music. Skateboard. Boxing. Thinking of ways to become rich. Thinking of places I want to visit. Starbucks. Barnes and Noble. Basically have a goal in your head. If you don't have one you will surely get stressed out easily. Think how you can improve your life, your body, or your bank account. What you want to learn. Buy a Subaru Impreza. I know everyone got their own taste but man what would I do without my Impreza.

I find that I get stressed easily when I don't know where my life is going or where I want my life to go. When I do start thinking of all the things I want to do with my life though, I feel this energy rushing throughout my body.

For a quick solution for now though, why not go see Transformer 2 if you haven't seen it.
 
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