"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to deal with slightly feminine face look?

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Hi All,

You can guess I am new here and have this unique issue....

I have slightly feminine looking facial features and so much so that I get positive complements from girls on them.... but personally i think it conveys a soft & gentle persona that I would like to get rid of....

I thought of growing facial hair but I have hair at moustache, below lips and below the jaw line... so i can not even keep a french beard sort of thing....

by tyler's points, this aspect is really great in establishing TRUST and ATTRACTION to some degree but not in VALUE ( it conveys soft and gentle persona to both sex)

How can i deal with it....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you work out? If not do that and see how you look in stubble. I like to clean shave but I get more compliments with stubble.
 
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Having a feminine face doesn't mean sh1te, carry yourself correctly and you'll be fine.
 
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make it work in your favor brotha


lol
did I say that out loud?


but seriously,it's nothing to be worried about..just look your best and be seen looking good.Nuff said,unless you look like Rosie O'Donnel then by all means hit a gym for once in your lifetime...and grow some facial hair while your at it :D
 
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I don't think it matters, when i used to wear eyeliner and dress like a transvestite punk I got far more women approaching me like that. Of course, I got a bit of male attention too...:trouble:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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