"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how to deal with sheltered chick

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iliketennis

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she's a friend of the family, her and her mom stayed with my parents this past weekend, i was visiting too for the memorial weekend. so, we had a few drinks, were making out in my bed when her mom came down and "caught us" and said it was time for her to go to bed. she's 22 years old, wtf?

anyway, she said i'm only the 2nd guy she's ever kissed. she was all into me that night but the next morning i get the cold shoulder. she kept asking "what do you want out of this?" i was noncommital.

now she's being silent. i want to see her again. how do i talk to her? why is she being so quiet?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She sounds like a good girl. I would not try to screw her unless you actually care about her. You could hurt her badly, and I think that is what she is trying to protect against now.
 
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she is a good girl. i didn't try to have sex with her then and i wouldn't now unless we started getting serious.
 
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u should have pulled it out, and told mama to join her daughter for a 3-way. stupid! LOL
 
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