"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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iliketennis

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she's a friend of the family, her and her mom stayed with my parents this past weekend, i was visiting too for the memorial weekend. so, we had a few drinks, were making out in my bed when her mom came down and "caught us" and said it was time for her to go to bed. she's 22 years old, wtf?

anyway, she said i'm only the 2nd guy she's ever kissed. she was all into me that night but the next morning i get the cold shoulder. she kept asking "what do you want out of this?" i was noncommital.

now she's being silent. i want to see her again. how do i talk to her? why is she being so quiet?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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brekke

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She sounds like a good girl. I would not try to screw her unless you actually care about her. You could hurt her badly, and I think that is what she is trying to protect against now.
 

iliketennis

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she is a good girl. i didn't try to have sex with her then and i wouldn't now unless we started getting serious.
 

Joe Stud

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u should have pulled it out, and told mama to join her daughter for a 3-way. stupid! LOL
 
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